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People don’t attract me. I don’t attract people. The relation is reciprocal. But the few that are (well, not attracted but I happen to know despite my unsocial trait) are all compatible on a mental level 
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It’s the prelude. To what? Don’t know that myself. I just want to thank the existence for making my road cross with the best of people. Kya manche betiyo yar! You bet. I am in Self-Congratulatory Mood!
Nothing really. Its just a great day, the sun’s shining ah but again everyone’s after the King’s “Baktabya”. But well, let me not talk of things I have no expertise on..So Happy Prajatantra Diwas Everyone! And For bloggers, I wish this Freedom of Expression Last for ever and ever!! And my day began with this day..So enjoy!!
“Wide Open Spaces”
-Dixie Chicks lyrics
Who doesn’t know what I’m talking about
Who’s never left home, who’s never struck out
To find a dream and a life of their own
A place in the clouds, a foundation of stone
Many precede and many will follow
A young girl’s dream no longer hollow
It takes the shape of a place out west
But what it holds for her, she hasn’t yet guessed[Chorus:]
She needs wide open spaces
Room to make her big mistakes
She needs new faces
She knows the high stakesShe traveled this road as a child
Wide eyed and grinning, she never tired
But now she won’t be coming back with the rest
If these are life’s lessons, she’ll take this test
[Repeat Chorus]She knows the high stakes
As her folks drive away, her dad yells, “Check the oil!”
Mom stares out the window and says, “I’m leaving my girl”
She said, “It didn’t seem like that long ago”
When she stood there and let her own folks know
[Repeat Chorus]
She knows the highest stakes
She knows the highest stakes
She knows the highest stakes
She knows the highest stakes
A great Start isn’t it? Anyways bored of my ” fed na tuppa ka kura” then here is something for you. Check it out!
since you started it, let me also put a piece of song from my favourite poet/singer, which came to my mind when i saw this post’s title. sorry, didn’t want to make it longer than your post by typing the full lyrics so only the last verses
I’m sentimental, if you know what I mean
I love the country but I can’t stand the scene.
And I’m neither left or right
I’m just staying home tonight,
getting lost in that hopeless little screen.
But I’m stubborn as those garbage bags
that Time cannot decay,
I’m junk but I’m still holding up
this little wild bouquet:
Democracy is coming …
Democracy, by Leonard Cohen
Happy democracy day to u too.
king g’s statement is a mere reflection of “struggle of existence.
A really nice lyrics Mpji! Thank You Or is it a sorry from my side because u didn’t want to make it longer and its not at all longer than my post too!la m confused now, Sorry And Thank You!! still a long way to gooooooo but the lyrics khatra lagyo..n reminded me of a line in the book soch” Yo desh khattam cha bhanne soch nai khattam ho..” khai kina kina…freedom of relating unrelated things maybe…?!? Still Thank You! …
Do you know what ?
I am coming back to the -hem hem- future ex-kingdom next month, after 15 years spent far away…
I’ll be in the valley most of the time (7 weeks)…
I do not usually write on your blog, but I read if quite often…
Do you remember Pascal Dai, last April on UWB ?
Be well, all of you !
Cyp’
From a very remote and ancient french village.
Sure I do remember you! You’d commented on something I’d written in UWB during the April movement! your comment was such a solace amongst all the thrashing and “rich lass” condemnations I was receiving there. I still remember Good to know you’ll be here.
Welcome To Nepal!
I’m sure you’ll have a wonderful time here, with so much going on here! And the weather’s great too..
N Muna ( Are you the one who writes in Kantipur) ? and the one I had seen a long time back in the Natchwey Show?? If so I would like to thank you for showing me the seat in the darkness then hai? If not its alright.. But thank you for the comment. yah I need to work a lot to better my Nepali, I am stuck in the middle while doing so many a times and other times I just don’t feel a certain word is conveying my sentiments, so the NepangLish. But I will do away with it. And for the poems, I have some Nepali poems to my credit but written long time back in school…eng poems would write till recent past but these days, I do it no more. Maybe I will wait till being a lover now as they say “every one turns a poet when in love”!! ha ha ha Just kidding..Nevertheles I am thankful for your great suggestions!! (btw why don’t you blog too?) just a blogger’s query 
Zaded ji,Was that comment of Wagle’s blog yours?
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Riposte of a Beau of Good Moral Character towards the Declaration of Jhan Charitrahin chelis
You juicy intellectuals with shaven crotch as well as those with long pubic hair, who are running cloak-and-dagger activities! Ah! You the ones without phallus (Let me say it. Why to say you have vagina? You don’t have penis, this is a fact.)
Unlike you I am not a hardliner. I am an individual, not a group. I won’t hide my identity. I am K sth.. C.sth. By profession, I am a scribe. This much for now Rest you find out.
You some among Pradhan, Sharma, Ranjit, Thapa…. I don’t know more names because my belle, a journalist who met you sometime at past in some place—for sure not a seedy bar as you have claimed when you had not declined to Jhan Charitrahin—denied to tell me the names. Look how ethical she is! How charitrawan she is!
I am not a lawyer. I am not an author. I don’t have journalistic background and I don’t work for INGOs. I am not a painter either….
Also, I also not a sexist. Not a masculinist by any chance. Sorry if I sound so. I am a beau with very good moral characters. . I don’t drink (…) and I don’t smoke (tobacco). Why do you count those meager puffs of black and green? More than that even at the age of 28, I have not experienced penetration. (Forget about those foreplays that never led to intercourse. Don’t count those eve-teasing, and forget about those molestations. You should not take into account those fondlings and smoochings.)
I don’t have any agenda, and I don’t declare Nepali men autonomous. Because I know though most of us are chauvinist we men need you women. To ride and for pride. For being taken care off and to take birth from. To make love and to be loved. Men is an evolved version of women. You take example of deer with horn, and doe without. Similarly, we men have penis and you do not. You have slit. Testes and ovaries are analogous however.
Apropos to your 12-point declarations, I have 36 things to say.
1. Yes, let’s make love not regression. Okay, sex boycott is over now. So shall we change the traditional posture of love-making? Let’s say eff off to Vatsyayana and his Kamasutra, and let’s try something different not to stick to regression.
2. Vision 36/36: Hey! Penises are great things to be in Parliament. You simply cannot prohibit those to enter the dark holes of the Vyawasthapika Sansad. Even if you try, the penises of different size, colour, texture, and expertise in the power-game — representing different ethnicities, cults, regions, doctrines and experiences will pierce the slit. So better be wise and come to a compromise before confrontation. You want civil war, filles?
3. I have a solution. Look at this aphrodisiac number. 36. Not we won’t stick to 33 per cent. You will get three more per cent and men are ready to enjoy the same number game. The rest 28 goes to in-betweens. Not to gays and lesbians, by the way. Because they have either penises or vaginas. So they can be included in either your sex or ours. Inclusive democracy we will be practicing.
4. Okay, we can give some reservation to them from our quota. 3 of 33 of vagina quota to lesbians, and 3 of 33 of penis to gays.
5. Government bodies too will have same structure. Bust all around may be abuzz. You know, busts are worse at the time when you frat. And also when you put pad. (During periods.) You put on cotton plugs to absorb the seepage, but it sucks.
6. Naturalise foreign jwains? Does Danny want to take Nepali citizenship then? Or you others got divorced, baby? So you want to ride a bideshi ghoda in deshi ground? Umm, may be You found out a black horse during your Fulbright term.
7. I have American Green Card. Do I fall under that category of Bideshi? I have been living in the US for six years. Shall I apply? But I won’t give up Nepalese citizenship. I am proud to be whatever I am and wherever I hail from. One idea, let’s date first. Trial ride also same time. Agree?
8. CV idea is not good. Okay I will submit one, albeit. But where? By the way, shall I mention my size in the CV. (Mine is comparable to that of an Arabic horse. That is my qualification. You will grasp it very soon.)
9. Forget grey coats. Pink is our colour. Recently I watched a pondy movie. Pink was all around.
10. Again if you want to talk about the grey coasts. Let do it. Have you counted the number of the Maoist women who cashed in on the loss of their Comrade Penises?
11. You ask them to find new and virile MEMBER. Party command won’t be an obstacle, I believe.
12. Why do you ask them to speak their minds? I suggest them to speak their desire. Her can be the point of unleashing themselves from all uniformity. Hisila has Baburam. But those bebes do not have any. But I don’t know what they do in locked rooms.
13. Hey, you old and worn-out bimbos! You forgot to talk about kamrednis in cantonment. Not only the gray coat but also the camouflage should be taken into consideration.
14. Again, what sort of suggestion is that “Get rid of grey coats.” Girls, how can they who are against the beauty pageants be topless?
15. You luscious intellectuals have no wisdom! They are not like you. They are real jans (people) and janapratinidhis (people’s representatives.) Be ready for jana-karbahi, Comrade Yami backforced by Pawanman and the cadres will raid your den very soon.
16. Yes whipping is for brutes. These men have a natural whip hanged on our loin.. So they whip. But if women defy the action, they have to resort to some unnatural means of action.
17. You don’t need to sacrifice your rights. You can call for the up-side down position for men. Sorry for mentioning men’s position. You appeal for the reservation of women’s top posture. For sure, this feminist Parliament will unanimously pass your call. Then you first practice first with your paramours. Hey, never let them change the position.
18. New leadership for the New Nepal! But why that Jhankri bebe for the presidency? Sexy Sujata will kill you. She will ask for your resignation, chelis!
19. Take Women’s council to every home. Make every woman member of it. Make a different party of women. Go to constituent assembly polls.
18. Because of pervert parents craving for baby penis, our more than half population has no penis. Why not to take action against fathers? You can give an amnesty to all those who do not have penis.
19. Fill the Constituent Council with vaginas. It’s 100 per cent cunt. But don’t forget to ask for free vibrator. 100 per cent bust!
20. No comment on Maina Sunuwar case. You can ask for hanging of the rapist. I am with you. No excuse to the perpetrators.
21. Hey, you forgot to urge OHCHR regarding action against those who raped and killed Namita-Sunita. You should be bold enough to speak against late Shah and director Shah. Is anyone of you related to Mr. Shah living in Gyaneshwor? Thapa bebe should be, if I am not wrong. You in the Mau-samuha or this this new gang?
22. You can, by the way, advocate for rapes by women. You can train girls for seduction and rape.
23.One suggestion, You invite Manisha in your gang. Her former lover Mr. Ambassador is younger than this old Moriarty. Why not to take help of one of the former royal foreign ministers. Dr. Thapa. He has connections with army.
24.Sexiest man of Nepal Sunil Babu Pant? Yes, he is a man. I don’t know what is the size of his penis though.. But not the sexiest. How could you forget Prachanda the great? His sexy moustache! His appealing speeches. His charming voice. Overall, the unprecedented movement led by him.
25. You chelis are reactionaries! You are mandales. You did not vote for Prachanda. Shall the Maoists come to the power, you will be tried for you conspiracy and your nexus with imperialist America. They will have strong proofs against you: One of yours ulbright Scholarship, one of yours affairs with Canadian scribe working for BBC, one of your…….
26. Will donors retreat? They give so they take. They give dollars and they take nice and best women. Simple principle: give and take. By the way, after earning a lot for yourselves why you want kuires to back off? You jealous of young women? You worn-out of the game and you are old; that is why?
27. “Their country needs them more than your country reports do.” Here is see some truth. Donors, back off! You have made our economically independent and women ultramodern and. That may be why they are practicing “Use and throw” dictum.
28. One of my friends waited for his lover working in an INGO to marry. She originally from Jhapa exploited the Kathmanduite buddy. Took advantage of his connections and got a job in the INGO. They lived in a flat for some months. However, she abandoned him to live with and massage penis of a kuire of another INGO.
28. Donors back off and citizenship to bideshi jwains? Now where do your demands meet? Donors later may become jwains. They may need to run some NGOs to earn bread to feed their Nepali concubines.
30. Keep it up; Don’t give up! Keep it up; Don’t give up; Keep it up; Don’t give up! I urge (who?) that your demands never be taken seriously.
31. March 8? Will love to see another satirical twaddle again.
32. Bimbos! My challenge: Though fast food is at disposal of your males, can you zip your blouse for ever? Ah. You can. You want to say rub from outside? Right? You will put lingerie without zipper then!
33. “No joy till you capitulate.” Okay. Let’s see who will surrender first. Till then you find vibrators. One suggestion: IN Nepal there is load shedding these days. You can make maximum use of wax candle of appropriate size till then. Enjoy.
34. “Nationwide stove-and-blouse closure’ You financed by chowchow factories and fast food houses? “Nationwide chulo-ra-cholo bandh (stove-and-blouse closure).” You have nexus with Blue Diamond Society? You want all men to be homosexual?
34You tried to compare yourselves with other rebel groups that have both vaginas and penises working together. Does a lock open without a key? You are lock, we have got key. You will never succeed alone.
35. Men won’t say “languati-banda”, however. They are ready to welcome you in their crotch. You come soon and put off their G-string. Hurry up to feel the warmth of the loin!
35. You want to join the negotiations then. Ha ha ha. Don’t joke. You have guts to come above-ground?
If yes, I self-appoint myself from the side of the Nepal government to talk to you. Common bebes!
Jaya Purush, Jaya Nari!
KC, a Charitrawan Chela
http://www.charitrawan.blogspot.com
(Note: Though not dishy alike those blokes (old Wagle and olderDixit, both with grey hairs)of Kantipur and NepaliTimes, I am virile enough to handle you. Again, I don’t drink and I don’t smoke. I am a charitrawan chela.)
charitrawahchela’s response, did you read it?
Ok!!
Just to ask you if u are alrite or just taking a hiatus!!
or too much bg??
Well, I missed ur presence; so just a common query as a fren!!
Have a nice day out there!!..:)
Hmm yah m the same zade Charitrawan Chela ji, enjoyed reading your response! you are too bold for me!kadak sabda prayog ka karan moderation ma basecha still put it here! lol n dear Juggy thanks for the “Kata bilako” query…..yetikai harako….bz ni hoina..nor free khai ke ke…ah..aba chahin bloggin duniya ma farkinu parla jasto cha he he he
now its time to say, happy blogtantra.com
your writing is good. may be its because you are a girl. but i really want to say that, its not only because you are a girl.
“I believe that imagination is stronger than knowledge. That myth is more potent than history. That dreams are more powerful than facts. That hope always triumphs over experience. That laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death.”
- Robert Fulghum
“The world doesn’t run according to you. This is the fact. Life sucks and you need to know it.” She sits on the blue chair lecturing me. “Tere bin besuwadi besuwadi ratiyaan sajana…..” the stereo is singing to itself. It’s not soothing my senses this evening. The more she speaks the more confused I get.
The morning was no different from it. She was scribbling in the big fat diary of hers and scolding cum “trying to make me see the light” as she put it. The topic of discussion was different this time. A well planned “ how to save the world” guff nevertheless.
Tell me, she said.
“Graduates….experts”…..I spoke my mind while she took it down on her notebook.
Ok me first!!…:D
Concert and alone…Hmm, Sounds cool idea; would love to try that out!!
But concerts in Kathmandu and me go parallel!! Had an obsession to go to every and each of them..Most amazing experience being the one by 1974 AD, remember the wildest crowd ever!! and another by Lucky ali…Parikrama from India rocked as well.. But I missed the one by Junoon!! Exam thyo bholi palta!!..:(
And I heard strings gave concert too in Ktm..One of my all time fav band!!..
–>And of course a psycho clad in jacket with “Well worn since 1942” written on it would keep turning back and smile at me as if I was in any mood to smile back!!
–>Bichara kyaa aas lyera hanseko hola..:P
But you know what I do whenever any stranger smiles at me, I smile back mischievously and If they stare at me, I stare back more at them..Try it, it works!!..:)
You’re unbelivably Fast!! I remember that 1974AD concert. I hadn’t been there, was too lato to do anything like that then!ha ha ha but a fren of mine had and she’d even got some “Lathis” from the police which had made a good tale in our get together party so no Lucky Ali too.. yah Strings did give the concert Pulchowk campus ma thiyo..I am a HUGE strings fan myself, but was too broke to afford the 200 hoki 400 rs ticket then.. a fren had been there..it rained so they had to cut it short.
N for the great smile tip. ha ha ha maile hasen vane ta tarsine sabvawana badi cha! lol pheri yo mahango braced teeth ma sab aire gaire nattu khaire lai kina muft ma dekhauthen ra! Dhanna herera hasyo, hasera kina bhau ghataunu bhanera kya LOL and oh ho aja Mischivieous Smile re! Testo bold hunachahin malai Intensive Training nai linuparla ha ha ha
Dang!! I used to pay any amount to go to concerts and then would go broke for months!! I was crazy abt those things back then..:D
Once a friend of me commented why I don’t smile on most of my pics re; I told her I would scare anyone on the 3 miles perimeter!! Now it seems you are copying my dialogue; dialogue chor!!..:P
Training cost a cup of coffee everyday!!
Interested?? ..:D
What if I said more than interested! lol ek cup coffee khatra thaun ma Rs 30-40 pareni teti chahin jasari ni kamauchu ha ha ha aja maile paile bhaneko kura reiterate garna ani ultai Chor dos laune! how “chor like” that is afai decide garnu! kya batho!
N well read something a lot more sensible here Talk of town: Social Inclusion
नेपालीमा लेखने जागँर चलेको छ । किन ? कसरी ? थाहा छैन ।
शायद थाहा छ, तर म भन्न चाहन्न । हा हा हा किनभने भन्ने कुरा पनि केही छैन । त्यसैले आजको योजना हो: दिल खोलेर मातृभाषामा गन्थन गर्ने । मनमा जे आउँछ्, कागजमा उतार्ने ।
गाउँको बास छ र बिजुलीको कुनै भरोसा छैन । त्यसैले एउटै काम दुई पटक गर्नु रहर नभएर वाध्यता हो । कहाँ बाट सुरु गरौँ त हाम्रो प्रेम कहाँनी ?
उ त्यहाँबाट सुरु गरौँ जस्तो लाग्यो, त्यो फोटोबाट । फोटोमा हामी दुई हावामा उफ्री रहेकाछौं । मुनिको खाट नदेखिए पनि मलाई याद छ । उ थोते छे, म लाटी देखिन्छु । अहिले सम्म पनि आफ्ना सबै फोटाहरु त्यसतै नै लाग्छन । भित्तामा एउटा पोस्टर छ, एक “रक स्टार” बिद्युतिय गीतार बजाइरहेका छन । त्यो मामाको करामत थियो ।
मातृभाषा मा लेख्ने जागर चलेको देख्दा खुसी लाग्यो। नेपाली मा अरु पनि लेख्नुस है त।
Mero saano comment:
Nepali maa sameep (adjective)–saameepya (noun).
Tara kina ho sabai le सामिप्यता (saameepyata) [dirgha ee hunchha 'ma' ko]… bhanera galat prayog garchhan!
Lau सामिप्यता yo ta thikai chha bhanaula…..
“Imaandaarita: makes me mad!
Imaandaar=honest
Imaandaari=honesty!
honesty is enough. WHy “honestiness”
sorry if the comment is irrlevant.
“कास”!
Hindi ko prabhaav…….
Bujhna nai garo bhayo ho! Kaha kaha ke ke jasto!
Lau maile te kehi bujhe jasto laagyo
I too have a collection of stones that I gathered in childhood. From Chitwan, Tanahun, Manang and Solukhumbu.
I too have a collection of stones including ammonites that I collected in Narayani.
Colourful stones collected from Solukhumbu to Chitwan.
Thanx for the comment guys..will keep that in mind Rambler. yah, lot of hindi influence..i thought bloggin in nepali would be a nice practice to improve my expression skills or whateverelse.
n Vahsekji wasn’t moderating your comment or anything like that…i think it went there coz had done that to one of your earlier comment…testai hundo rahecha, sab training liyepachi thaha paiyela ni ha ha ha
hi
ur writing power is to good.i’m impressed…nepalima lekhekoma khusi lagyo.tara bicha ma kin english………..nepali kabita haru pani ta rakhna saknu hunthyo ni hain…………nepali kabita haru pani ta kam ramra chhanan ni……..any way…u have done grt job………wish u all da best…………
Dear Zade..
तिम्रो ब्लग पढ्न निक्कै मज्जा आयो । म ब्लग पढेर समय बितौने मान्छे त होइन, तर तिम्रो ब्लग पढेर i am sure to be back again to read u.
नेपाली म अलि थोरै भयो ,केही ज्यादा आशा गर्छु ल ।
Keep it up..
tapain ko lekh matribhashama lekhepani kata kata ma malai bahiri bhashako mix test pani payeko jasto lagyo. mind nagarnus hai?
i am sherpa people and i like this
The guy smiled. I was back.
The smile must have nearly killed me. But dying wasn’t an option.
I was a customer after all not a lover.
Five minutes and ….turned off. Not me, the computer. I was in a cyber café. There was nothing he could charge me.Time: 5 00 pm, Feb 14, 2007
The sun was out by the time I stepped outside on the streets. Incessant rain, snow and the sun peeping through the clouds. Could Kathmandu get any more romantic on a Valentine’s day? The day was good…hmm only Good? Nah.it was GREAT.
“अल्छि हुनु भनेको जिउँदै मर्नु हो,
हिम्मत हर्नु भनेको मा न सिक कम्जोरी हो,
इमान्दारी छाड्नु भनेको आँफैलाई धोका दिनु हो ।
well said.
Dang!! Second again!!..:(
Man I need to be more active!!!
Two frens eh!! and the valentine’s day!! what more can be more special than that two best frens celebrating it on a special way; hope the bond will be for forever!!..:)
Yeah I am becoming nostalgic of my walks over in Kathmandu now!!..:S
And U did have a blast!!..:)
Happy for ya!!:D
You really have a love-hate relationship with Valentines day, don’t you? Haha, don’t take the question too seriously….
hmm yah surely was a great walk! ani bond for life pani pakka ho! I think yo age ma baneka sathi I mean yeti budo vayera baneka xtremly close friends ….are meant to last…
ha ha ha yah I have a love hate relation with everything I guess! Nothing truer ( doubt the existence of the word ) could be said about me!
wow malai ta hamro tyo 5 hours long date purna taja bhayo, how nice was that moment, infact romantic moment will be best to describe those moments. we are not lovers definately but we enjoyed and gathered memories that i guess no lovers can collect.it was unplanned and i was feeling so lazy to wake in that cold morning but now i m realizing what would happen if i wouldnt have fought with my decision to sleep back after receiving your sms. thank god u alerted me to come college and our 5 hr long date was simply fantastic. ndys ma ta kati khaiyo khaiyo but that day it was special. red ballons and only two couples. one of them were us even though we were friends but felt as it i m with my bf.ani ta tyo rainy season ma meuseum ani pheri king Mahendra le lekheko tyo romantic song. sayaad velentine day bhako le hola we got to read that poem and really felt like copying it. unfortunately we had nothing to write.finally our date was off but real romantic moment started with that snow fall which made u more excited, although i couldnt feel it but felt like playing it listening to u.
ladki chalu comment lekhdi raiche! ke bhanya tyo ” Felt as though m with my bf” re ha ha ha hasayera marnai atis malai! Talai ek pachi arko fursad chaina…aja bf bhanera mera bache khuche ka kehi chances pani ruin garchas! ( you sud see me laughing ahile) tara jindagi mast cha hai..ta, ma ra phucchi ko three musketters jastai..ha ha ha ok bholi “Independence Day” Arey Moj Gar! tara malai miss chahin nagar ni , psycho haula pheri ha ha ha ha ha hmm but on a serious note..we should go there on a “jharii pareko” bihani again huncha..poem note garna I so wish both of us weren’t girls! ( roaring wit laughter) pet dukhyo ha ha ha ha..
lol..Lop parna lagechha..:P
A friend emailed this article to me about 16 hours ago,my Gmail account informs. I am calculating if that was before I Got on the person’s Nerves Or After. Nevertheless Sorry dearest friend. My Fault Again! To err is human I know but to err again and again I don’t know what that makes me, must be a devil! LOL
Love’s Labor’s Lost
What Young Women Are Saying About Their Aversion to Emotional Ties
By Laura Sessions Stepp
Washington Post Staff Writer
Wednesday, February 14, 2007; C01
Today on Valentine’s Day, high school hallways and college courtyards will be scattered with flowers. Young women at work will peek at the personal ads online, and dish about who got what.
They may confess to having a crush on their chemistry partner, or confide to a friend that the guy in the cubicle next to them is “really hot.” What they probably won’t say is “I love him” or anything close to it. Because while they may enjoy the trappings of love, many young women believe that being in love, at least right now, is impractical, foolish, a sign of weakness or even unattainable.
Evie Lalangas, a communications specialist at the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, is talking about this over lattes on a Sunday afternoon with several friends in their early 20s.
the above post ‘temples and palaces’ was a good read on the girls’ talk…
but, i sometime find you utterly confused between the entry like this one ‘love labor and lost’ and the one above this. one moment you show your strength as a career women and the next– vulnerable single women, but i guess that’s life– finding a balance, now it almost sounds like an advise from ‘the purpose driven life’ the crappy book…
forcing oneself to find a love is like a willful sleeping, you can count as many sheep as you want, but sleep will elude you. just, relax and let it go, you will fall asleep, so with love. god, now i sound like oprah, yet worse dr. phil…crappy people. but, advice hasn’t killed anyone.
banter aside, coming back to the article, triple L’s—love labor lost, the flaw with feminism model, in fact any movement is that they are not universally applicable. almost all of the modern day feminist movements are devised or formulated at the West, so IMHO the template wouldn’t fit for nepali women, lots of twitching and twirling to do to make it a local movement, nonetheless absolutely necessary.
priorities and agendas for women in our part of the world are world apart themselves from the women in the developed society, while theirs’ might have been career decision, when to get married, when to have children etc. etc. but for our women they might be getting basic education, getting basic health care for the family etc. etc. but to make the matter more complex, within women, we have groups among groups of illiterate, semi-literate and highly educated. so, within nepal itself, feminism has different meanings for these different groups…
where am going with this argument? in truth, i am lost, before i get more lost or loster, i should stop.
haha lost, loster, losterer…… I haven’t read the above article yet, maybe later. But Gol’s argument does make sense. In countries like Nepal (Third World, who’s the second world then?) it’s not only that we do not have a single monolithic block that represents women, but it’s which block is in majority. When the feminist movement happened in the West, the largest block was educated (at least high school, and some college) middle class women, and women with career objectives, and they have from the get-go defined the feminist movement. Our problem (in all areas) is we try and ape whatever has happened in the west blindly. Our biggest group probably is poor, uneducated woman working as a menial labour. And if you go to them with these ideas of “Western Feminism”, you might as well be talking in a different language. Not to look down on Nepali women or sound condescending. Of course even though uneducated in the traditional sense, they are smart and know how to survive. But probably their priorities are different and maybe feminism movement needs to take things a step at a time.
Now I’m at least as confused as Dr. Phil, if not more!
rambler,
thank you, i shall be a girly bold as always 
She rests her chin on the knuckles of her right hand and looks at the road outside. There’s absolutely nothing to see. And the act isn’t called seeing but rather staring at nothing. She’s not looking at them, she’s looking past them. Somewhere beyond all the materialistic crap. A detached, dejected look.
There’s a certain picture of herself in her mind. She thinks that’s exactly the way she is looking at the moment. Head facing the window clearly indicating her mood. Wants to see no “Person” anymore. Maybe its hunger, maybe anger. Or maybe she’s just going nuts by the ongoing conversation between two guys standing nearby whose topic changes with the change of her actions.
“Feb 14: nothing but an irritation.” …. on a positive note, it will all be over soon. But then again, maybe not soon enough, and that too, just for a year ….
On a more positive note, (and this time for real), I see that your new map of the world is looking flashy and shiny, pretty with red dots all over “the world”.
You’ve put forward many definition of romance, but what could possibly be more romantic than people from far and wide reading about your idea of romance, or even a lack there-of. People coming to visit your ideas, feelings, your thoughts, sometimes agreeing with it, sometimes begging to differ, but coming back nonetheless …. now that, my friend, is romance ! ( haha …. yo bhale aja basyo)
~pakhe
On a more positive note, (and this time for real), I see that your new map of the world is looking flashy and shiny, pretty with red dots all over “the world”.
Yo den ta tapainkai ho ni N I like Your defination of Romance. Mera guruba lai chahin tyo cock-a-doodle-dooo sunauna paye hunthyo
N Say, you sure are right! I need some time to get the Spark back for sure. ahile chahin ” Kaag lai bel pakyo harsa na bismaat” festival over huna dinuparla…LOL
Sometimes i too feel as u have felt here. Sometimes it seems that everything is boring but sometimes all that things are also seems romantic. It all depends upon our mood, on our perspective and the time and our situation in which we have been walking.
Happy Valentines day…..
happy valentines day rajesh and the writer
Wow.
But I cannot express myself alike you.
Its no fun to comment on 9th!!..:(
I think I should put an alarm to inform me whenever u post anything new..:P
Ok on the blog now:
Sometimes u just be with someone who knows u inside out and feel as if u r out of this world!! Kya heavenly feeling; but in run of life, they too start missing..:(
—>“And it feels like I am living someone else’s life
Just like I stepped outside”
I feel like I have left my soul somewhere so far away….feels like I am emotionless bum who is living the life just for the sake of life!!
Maybe I ll find it someday!!
Here is wishing you
Happy valentine’s day!!
and yeah don’t feel alone,the world is with you!! And world includes me too I think!!..:P
Have a blast out there!!..:)
Hey Hem how u doin….??
To Rajesh,
I m taking rest in my room i m discharged and its be n 10 days i m in room now.we chatting in others blog ..
Sometimes u just be with someone who knows u inside out and feel as if u r out of this world!! Kya heavenly feeling; but in run of life, they too start missing.. 
……..i don’t know what do say to this…because its…so TRUE.
I am emotionless bum who is living the life just for the sake of life!!
malai ta sab mero dialogue choreko jasto lagna thalyo!! how badmaas can you be ha ha ha actually i feel my heart is detached from my body, lost somewhere in the wilderness and nothing affects me…u know that total Disppasionate existence.. love me, hate me, hurt me…I just don’t feel anything anymore.. an emotionless bum in exact words.
n for not feeling alone…hmm again feel like a narcissist but khai k feel like two persons in one, who needs no one else…. khai ke ke still ghari ghari lonely ta bhai halcha ha ha ha but now I feel good, as there is some Juggy somewhere in the crowd of billions of people who gets my lines exactly and Steals some more !!! LOL
Thank you so much for your comment! now time to hurrrrrrrrrry to college….ma kuden
Love Is All Around
by Wet Wet Wet
I feel it in my fingers
I feel it in my toes
Love is all around me
And so the feeling grows
It’s written on the wind
It’s everywhere I go oh yes it is
“फेरी प्रणय दिवस आयो है? यस पाली पनि कोही ……फेला परेन यार” उसले ढोका उघार्दै भनिन । पढिरहेको किताब छउमा रखेर म जोर सँग हाँस्दै भनेँ
“हामी जस्ता शाकाहारीलाई …..को के काम?”।
अब हाँस्ने पालो हामी दुबै को थियो । दिदी बहिनीका कुरा ।
प्रसङ Valentine’s Day को ।
Happy Valentine Day to you tooooooooooooooooooo
आहा बडा राम्रो लेख्नु भएछ zade ले त , माया पिरतिमा परेपछि साथी हरु होस् गुमाउने
देख्नेलाई लाज भएर के गर्ने अब social हुन लाई देखेर पनि नदेखेको जस्तो गर्दिने नि ।
http://www.archana.com.np/blog/
त्यो त हामीलाई नाइन्साफि भैहाल्यो नि!
नक्कल पारेनी हेर्ने बाँकी केही ठाँउ त छाड्नु पर्यो नि! नदेखेको जस्तो त मान्छे सँग कुरा गर्न मननलागेको बेला मात्र गर्न आउँछ, आँफै मात्र हुँदा पनि स्वाङ पर्नु पर्ने कस्तो जिन्दगी हो यो! हा हा हा यसो समस्या बुझ्ने प्रयास गरौँ न हो१ सब डेटिग स्पोट बनाएरै हैरान्, कफि खाँदा त कप मै मात्र हेरुला! गोदबारी मा त सिनरी हेर्न पाउनु पर्यो नि!
haa haa malai ta ekdum haso uthyo. tapain ko samasya love bird haru le bhujhlan ta?? sankai chha, ki kaso?
aba mero samasya premjodi harule nabhujidiye ni ma chahin afu jastako samasya bujherai act garula ni Kunai Din!!! LOL wht solace ha ha ha
शनिवारको बिहानै भ्यालेन्टाइनको भूतले तर्साउने भो भन्ठानेको तर खूब हँसायो सुरुको दिदी-बहिनीका कुराले नै set me rolling with laughter…त्यसपछि त रोकिने कुरै भएन झन!
अनि म त त्यो तस्बीरको thumbnail or resize or crop राख्न खोज्नुभो भनेर पो हुन्छ भनेको त। कस्तो कन्जुस्याई, एउटा लिङ्क ले टारिदिने? अनि अझ साइडमा Thanks for the permission MPji रे, अब त्यति लिङ्क गर्नलाई पनि कसैको permission चाहिन्छ र?
happy valentine!! हावा नृत्यमै सिमित रहेपनि!!
oh ho Valentine Bhoot entry ma prabesh paune tetro chahana! lol aba rakhchu hai tasbir.
“happy valentine!! हावा नृत्यमै सिमित रहेपनि!!”
hmm aba हावा नृत्य ko mahtwo jhalkaune pic line le ni try garaun na ta testa kura? ani patta lagcha सिमित hunu ko masti!!
Thank You!
Valentine ko pichas!
yo budho valentine le pani taruna tarani haru lai khoob piroleko chha
HE….Ha……..HA……Ha…….
k garna haso matra aayo
Ha….ha…..ha….
lau kp… k bho ra/
valentine ko pichaas le choyo ki kya ho?
Vahsek’s Ramblings-You won’t remorse on reading me!!If you do, sorry!!
हसाँएको थाहा पाउँदा मन नै प्रसान्न भयो! अब
डेट नभएर रुनु भएन क्यारे, होइन त ?तेसैले Vals को रोमन्चक पक्ष र भोगाइ को गन्थन लेखेको ।
कमेन्ट का लागि धन्यवाद है सबैलाई । अनि Vahsekजी तपाईं प्रेम दिवस् को कट्टर बिरोधि पर्नु भयो कि कसो ?
N btw everyone tried to do something new.and found this songspot thing there, does the song play when you click on it? I don’t know what’s wrong with my computer.., maybe the speakers ho ki maybe I have not done the thing correctly. Please give me a feedback on if the Song there “Love in the Wind” gets played or not hai? yeso fiddling with this blog kya …n don’t forget to read Say’s story . I have provided the link in the article. Its Babbal! sth more to get high on the Valentine Fever.
yep, the song does play!
Thank You! balla dhukka vayo.
zade ले आफ्नो गन्थन त सुनाइ हाल्नु भो, प्रेमी प्रेमिका को पिडा पनि सुन्ने हो कि?
ल यता आउनु होस् न त एक्छिन
http://archana.com.np/blog/
Yoh barsa pani kunai boka fela parena yar bhanera taile basantapur ko tyo mandir ma bhaneko sunda ta lagyo ki phuchi le talai boka bhaneko k ho bhanera nasikako bhaye ta thulo illusion ma hunthes but after going through this entry definately u have cleared that its very difficult for we nepalese to celebrate this love festival openly.
K garnu ‘ pyar keya to darna kya bhanne’ mantra pani exercise garna garo kaam richa.ani jhan dance class jaja thale pachi ta every day romantic geet haru ma nachda nachdi afno ta romantic feeling ko defination kukhura baseko ra sarra hawa chaleko bhanda dheri farak bha cha. love song ma dance garera tyo seweaty look ma afno valentine ko najik gayera katai coffee khanu ko majja nai arkai huncha. Ani jati tauko nai katne fan haru bhaye pani tyo auta manche jasto ta koi nahudo raicha so all p’s bye bye because real “P” in her life has finally entered and made her forget every thing.Ani jati ramri keri haru ko sathi bhaye pani intellectual friend haru ko astitva bhaneko farak huncha ni, chat ma jati jhanta kura gare pani akhir baudik sathi lai ta faida ko lagi bhaye pani periphery ma rakhi halchan ni.but i dnt think u fren is that beautiful as some one has regarded her to be balanced salad with all ingredients included and necessarily not beautiful.
Valentine day ta bhabya manau jasto lagyo yar malai ta tero yoh entry padera, after all we are no more living in the world where we are not allowed to stay with the person we like.Ani how interesting is the way ur sis identify love jodi haru, but its true as they cant stay with out feeling each other no matter they r in resturent, hall, public place or class room but its natural and we musr respect their feeling after all we cant deny the fact that no love exists with out sexual feellings and spiritual love just sounds nice to read and listen. I think u can remember someones view on long distance relationship.
Khai may be love happens when u regularly see, meet,talk and yes of course miss your partner and cant wait to see him.yoh ta beha nai nabhai sriman, srimati, buda,budi ani pati dev vanne jamana cha ra tesma love kata cha bhanera khojnu ta garo pani chaina. Meeting bhai rako bela ma sano cheat ma I LOVE U bahnera pass garchan, i will wait for u for 5 years bhanchan,u love me too bhanera sodchan,romantic sms pathauchan but one girl is so strong that she remains completely uneffected with that proposal,i think there is some one else for her and is waiting for him however i suspect that she has already recognized her real hero.
kahi paris ma honeymoon ko lagi ticket kinedine sathi paunu pani bhagya ko kura raicha.
khoob lekhis yar! ho I think we should grab every single opportunity to celebrate life ! Remember what I told you ni Pashupati I want to repeat ha ha ha “Jindagi ek bar ho, aja yahan bholi kewal kharani so you Should LIVE, Love pani dhurandhar style mai garnuparcha!”
n begining with Phuchi ko kura to say the fact I am still not able to understand this Boka-khasi difference, and you know how dhilo buddhi I have got in such matters ..I think I asked some guy in our class about it! n he had laughed so badly..but with the help of our friend hope will grow up someday ! ahile there is no need, hoina ta?
N for the Balanced Salad that you are! ( never heard such an original dialogue yar)..I think I am the happiest character in this Discovery Of Love Here, yah would gladly wear your marble or siffon or whatever that you plan to give me!kamar dhekhauna ha ha ha maybe should start trimming down some more! Whatever the reason for keeping “Baudik Sathi” in your periphery, I like it! LOL that way I still get to stay bad like this never learning to cook, only being fed .Well we all have a reason, a selfish reason ( the whole unconditionality of relationship..is crap I have realized) bare fact of life ho ni ,hoina ta? Am waiting for those “please come for dinner, Again” calls!!ha ha ha and he’s gonna like my dining habits “eat without leaving a grain of rice on the plate” ! Dreams , hoi it surprise me. The pace in which they Get Fulfilled. Scary Speed yar, but when the person is consistent then Life Absolutely Rocks!!
ani coffee ta ho, m so glad that you finally understand its Magic!! The same place which becomes special, the walks, the evenings..yesai baudik sathiko love guruma vako kina thak lauthen ra!!ha ha ha bidambana sab lai help garne surma afno nai damadol vayeko chalai paiyena!!
N whtever is the real hero and the fake! The girl’s gonna have it her way, her life, her style! but your suggestion is noted for life criterias will be cook tasty, no drinks please! pheri taile bhanya jasto everyday I will have to listen to ” hernos srimatiji, ma 2037 sal ma janmeko! duniya dekhiyo.! ” ah ha ha ha tyo film ta ma jindagi bhar birsinna!! but always a pleasure for her to be able to promise things that sound next to impossible at the moment for her friend. but you never got anything without dreaming, hoina ta? I guess she needs to plan her earnings carefully now in order to do that Just In Time because this is Too Fast but again like he’d said ” the faster the better”. ha ha ha
Yo Vals ta Babbal Nai Gar hai! malai ni idea de ramna ha ha ha ghar ma basera nachnu bhanek!
तिम्रो आशिष को लागि धन्यवाद!
लव गर्नेसँग संगत गर्दा अब लव पनि गर्न आउला
हा हा हा संगत ? यहाँ guilty party को एकतिरको मान्छे मात्र चिन्नु पर्ने रहेछ्! दुबै जना चिनेर चाँही जिना हराम भाको हो क्य! आहा यो एक तिर दुई शिकार पो भो त! हलुका भो ! I feel like the master of Ghochpech Wow! अनि चाहे त यसपाली नि खतरा हुनसक्छ नि! नजाने गाउँको बाटो के सोध्नु भनेर bold नभाको LOL सब कुराको समय हुँदो रहेछ । Reminds me of a nice love song which goes ” When It comes to love I need a slow hand” …romantic number sunera vasirako, so vals no vals malai sadhai same, just a bahana to Smile broader and laugh louder!
Ok..The valentine’s month is here again!! and it took ur blog by storm!!..:P
And I am 20th to comment..:(
It had been obsession to comment first on ur blog..:P
U just have to state love in your blog and it takes blog by storm..ehehehe
Anyways, the overrated day is here to stay!!
And to tell u the difference in khasi and boka:
Khasi is vascetomised version of Boka!!
Now don’t ask me again what vascectomy is!!..:P
have a nice time out there!!..:)
*vasectomised
*Read vascectomy as vasectomy
God me and my typos..:(
Thanks Juggy. I think that was what exactly I needed to know. but then a friend called me and gave me the exact meaning of the entire Boka word usage, and I surely Was Shocked to know it! God, its got such Yucky meaning therefore I am damn mad at everyone I know for not telling me that. Guys you could have at least mailed me! Therefore I first got angry at my sis for saying the dialogue without understanding the meaning, then at myself for writing it without Getting The Entire Thing! Damn! but never meant it otherwise..tyo ta malai nai thaha thiyena…so I am erasing it..shock nai paryo ni malai ta!
Nice expression of feelings towards V Day. Tara sarai bore nai hunchha yar tyo din chai jata heryo jodi matrai. Asti ko pali tens bhayera eklai film herna gayeko ta half time pani nabhai bhagera niskanu paryo. What a nice & safe place for couple but now a days its being a very tens and jelous place for others single. Anyway, happy valentine day in advance.
Valentine ko bhut gajab lagyo … ji,
Joda hune nahune both le chitta bujhaune bato ko kura ho….tara khoi hami ta pachhi ko pachhi..ha ha hah haa…Mero number kaab aayega!!!
Any Joda Hune nahune sabailai
HAPPY VALENTINE
Lau khasi ra boka ko difference maa comment lekheko thien feri haraechha!
Juggy you are not cent percent correct hai. Scientifically speaking.
Rather than vasectomised, khasis are castrated. Even after vasectomy male animals have lust. YOu can take example of humans!
Vas deferens, the sperm duct, is surgically cut in vasectomy.
In castration, testicles are broken or removed in males. As in the case of making khasi from boka.
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One more thing Zade, there is one more word that my annoy you.
“THHIS”
You know its meaning? But most of the guys use it . you would have heard it.
If not find in one of my blogs.
There is the url. above … below my name in this very comment of mine.
Well, thankx for the sharing ur knowledge here. though I have a few questions here, why the need to do that?? ( but you needn’t answer). I don’t think the goats have a population explosion problem? ..whatever the case I am not interested in knowing that..will write an entry on this I guess ..have been thinkin of it for a long time( not abt goats)but the sex education in our country …ah..so not in mood at the moment but thanx again. better know of sth and than remain ignorant I guess….
Ok.
I knew that but wanted to make it simple!!and yeah I didn’t remember the word castrate!!..:S
well I have seen the procedure, how cruel human are..:S
I mean the bokas scream in pain and ppl stand and watch the procedure!!.:S
i’m ta rajniti ko bhoot.
what i thought was always abt rajniti. hard politics kya.
no, don’t take me wrong–i wasn’t involved in any political parties. but have participated in major political movts and yes on social movts. i thought i’m made for that.
ani tesaima maile jooni bitaechu. i’m quite old now (all my friends, even from college, except one have challa-challis!!). febs came and went. its not that i was not attracted to girls, but never took seriously… fursat kaha thiyo ra? or chha ra? dog-busy kya!
after a week past the V-D somehow i got to read your post on LOVE, etc…
and there was this song, LADY in RED,
and it reminded me of my teenaged days…
i didn’t understand english songs then (neither do i now, btw, when was the last time i listened to english song? or for that matter any songs? well it was some time ago, Lookin for father in you by mary j bilge i guess. liked the song though). but somehow listened to musical hour (?). and bought a few english cassettes…. in one of them was this song Lady in Red…
but there was no lady in red in my life…. red-faced? no. i’m not.
thanks for reminding me of my good-old days…
CHEERS
kaale
v day ko bara ma ramro chha.
tara hamro teen age ko lagi ta bada dashain ho. badadashai ko importance ta tapai le samjhanu hunchha hola.
next year plz bada dashi jhi utshav gharnu hola.
Juggy 8:01 pm on February 27, 2007 Permalink |
Dear Zade,
I am fine here! Hope You are also doing well there! It seems that your hiatus had not been long, and you have come back with a bang!! The bang was so great that it almost deafened me, and I jumped out of my bed to reply to your bang!! It was a good start for a day to hear the big bang and I am almost as happy as Chris Gardener(Will Smith) in the end of film ‘The Pursuit of Happyness’.
I wish you happy holi ahead and yeah hit back the with big big dhungas back to lola hitters but make sure that u don’t choose big dhunga as lato bungro and go on spree of killing someone..:P
I hope you will be keeping in touch more or less frequently now.
Yours,
Juggy
P.S.- I really missed reading something from you, but it really wasn’t that long: was it??..:-S
Okies, Now that ^letter^ sounds like a real letter to real person innit??…:)
Just a rant from a virtual someone!!..:P
pakhe 10:45 pm on February 27, 2007 Permalink |
walk around with pebbles, or dont even bother with that …. theres always a brick lying around in some form you can always use, pick that up and hurl it in the general direction. High availability. Carry a sling shot if need be … i can tell where to find those
… or maybe you should go into hiding yourself and give them a taste of their own medicine when they are on their way out on a date in shiny shirts …. do anything to fight this hideous atrocity that has become a ritual … one that “Jhan Charitraheen Cheli”s seemed to have over-looked in their agenda …. Phew that felt good too …. thanks ….
H 9:20 am on February 28, 2007 Permalink |
Hahaha! Nice one! real nice one. I wondered where u were lost, and why u were’nt bloggin dude! Awesome entry. I love knowing who said what in ur entries despite the fact that we at the background remain anyonymous. Rocks!
Nway, catch u sun for a little more fun! hehehe
H
Hi' 10:21 am on March 1, 2007 Permalink |
Nice to see you back.
Afno Kura-The Stupid Feelings 8:42 pm on March 2, 2007 Permalink |
Hi, nice expression of “anything to everything”. Yup, writing is the best one idea to express the hidden feelings and to feel light.
Being a male sometimes it has more benifits that we shouldn’t have to face such lola ko gola. But, me too loose bad temper while seing the throw of lolas to innocent and cute gals on such stupid ways by nonsence boys. While most of the gals reply them with the cute smile and that time i stunned on my way.
Anyway, kahi nabhako jatra hadi gau ma bhane jastai, i have only seen such nonsence culture in this Kathmandu and which is in increasing trend instead of being discouraged and made punishment.
ZaDeD 7:38 am on March 3, 2007 Permalink |
Happy Holi everyone!!Splash ! That’s my lola hitting you!
now to the comments. Know what Juggy( still feel kinda weird saying only Juggy here) still..Just when I was beginning to think you are real Bang! came the realization: you are but a virtual entity !! ( Virtual Reality ?!? chahin a debatable word in itself I guess
N thankfully Have been aimed by Lola hitters, but escaped everyone of them, ahile samma he he he so feeling good, no “Lato bungo” daud with boulders thereby ha ha ha..Glaring at the ones with lolas in thier hands works !! Try it! But having a sling, handy would be make girls more secure ..perhaps
Hayah honey, you tell me how should I react to your goodie-goodie words ha ha ha be me and say ” Oh Yeah, you do love to read who said what” or be formal and go “Thank you, my friend, you rock this existence of mine!” ha ha ha LOL…but sorry for that last one hai, first I got on your nerves and you did too ni!! so even.
Nyways thanks for the day hai, you made it all so easy , I was acting edgy for no reason…now chahin I say this From my heart ” You surely Rock My World!!”
And Afno Kura….hmmm will write a blog and discuss holi in Detail hai. Thanks for commenting nevertheless.
Till then you can all read this HOLI HORROR
Juggy 9:13 pm on March 3, 2007 Permalink |
What U call real can be virtual too!!
Virtuality remains in the definition of the reality!! I don’t draw the lines between them!! You are as real as reality to me!!Thats all I can say!!
Happy holi!!..:)
malika47 10:25 am on March 17, 2007 Permalink |
Yes… sonetimes it’s fun writing about everything, but nothing in particular. It was a fun read.
Maichyang