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  • Zadexpress 1:53 pm on May 30, 2007 Permalink | Reply  

    just writing…………….. 

    When the order to move on comes, the warrior looks at all the friends he has made during the time that he followed the path. He taught some to hear the bells of a drowned temple; he told others stories around the fire.

    The heart is sad, but he knows that his sword is sacred and that he must obey the orders of the One to whom he offered to his struggle.

    Then the warrior thanks his traveling companions, takes a deep breath and continues on, laden with memories of an unforgettable journey.
    Manual of the Warrior of light by Paulo Coelho

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    • juggy 4:33 pm on May 30, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      I am wordless!!
      But I hope You will make it large!! The life and everything!! I know I didn’t know her and my words won’t make much difference to what you feel; but still I wish you will feel good soon; feel her presence within the absence and make it your strength to move on!!
      Keep living my friend, Keep on living; and surely make it large!! :)
      Best wishes!!

    • keshuvko 9:49 pm on May 30, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Last time while commenting, I had no clear idea about the tragedy you were talking about. Later when I got to know that she IS the the unfortunate one, I really felt sorry.

      Somewhere I had written sth like how different we (humans) are from other beasts.

      “They live to fight (=fight to live) for food and mate. And, we also for our ego.”

      Yes, memories are a sweet thing. We need some inspiration to live. Let’s find some even amid the misery and hard knocks.

      Life should move on.

    • aart 7:34 am on May 31, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      hello!
      While surfing in the net I discovered your profile and I also love the work of Paulo Coelho!!!! Do you know that he is launching his new book, The Witch of Portobello, through his blog
      http://www.paulocoelhoblog.com?
      I found it out because i’m inscibed to his newsletter http://www.warriorofthelight.com/engl/index.html
      it’s simply wonderful!
      have a nice day!

    • maliak47 8:04 am on May 31, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Beautiful… I haven’t read something so capitivating in a blog in quite sometime. (Since all my bloggers have dissappionted me by not writing and even when they write, by protecting it with a password)
      I agree with you about memories… fer me personally, even bitter ones are good enough to be stored because they teach us a lot, and remind us of how we’ve grown…
      I’m sorry about the death of your friend. But life goes on, it’s painful, but it goes on. It has to…

    • malika47 10:06 am on June 2, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Oh darn… i just realised that I’d commented on your blog without realising (even after having heard the news on TV) that your friend was Pravina.

    • Reality Bites 11:06 am on June 6, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      You should try to live alone. Think that just natural process……….Memories can create a touch with someone……….that lasts forever………Life is still to be continued………..Feelings really makes us so much near and near…….
      Thanks.

    • 'D' 2:42 pm on June 11, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      You can live a hundred years and not have lived at all. Sometimes in one moment you live a hundred lives. In one spark of time you rise above human existence and soar through the ways of eternity.
      My speculation has little value when human experience is concerned. Our experiences are our masters and mentors. No book or university education can teach us what our experience does. Each of us has the priviledge of interpreting our exprience and you are doing the same. It has taught you to ‘Live’. There can be no grater inspiration.

    • 'D' 2:50 pm on June 11, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      BEST OF LUCK FOR YOUR EXAMS.

  • Zadexpress 11:38 pm on May 21, 2007 Permalink | Reply  

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    • juggy 3:26 am on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      I felt what you wrote there zade!! I truly felt it and tears came to my eyes; I am not that weak but it made me feel! I can feel every word u wrote; and I can feel what u must have been feeling; and I know nobody will understand what u feel moreover what u maybe going through!!
      I read it, I reread it and it made me feel, made me realize the small things we treasure along our life!! The talks, the walks, the guffs and everything; the life isn’t immortal but we just wish that it remains forever!! Life and bitter truth; and truth strikes! Hard to accept but life happens; and we should be strong enough to continue on for the ones who are around us, and for the ones who left us too because they wouldn’t wanted have wanted us to be unhappy, do they??

      May the departed soul rest in peace,
      may the smiles shared be treasure,
      may you get the strength to hold on,
      may the timeless memories be your savior!!

      I can just hope you have strength enough!! I hope You will carry on my dear friend!!
      May god be gracious to you if there really is god!!

    • अविनाशी पौडेल 8:04 am on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Oh !
      I m numbed too. Speechless. Frozen. God! wish it’s just not true….

    • Plain Jane 8:48 am on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Oh dear lord..I am crying one more time again. I feel the huge void..can’t even imagine what it must be for you.
      I was thinking of you the other day. What you must be doing..how you must be doing. I am so sorry. I am so so sorry. Wish I could change back time too. It shouldn’t have happened. This is not the way it should be.
      I remember her helping us get ready for our parties..i remember helping her with the mehendi the day day before her big day. I remember talking to her and admiring her for just her. It’s hard to believe all that has just remained as a memory now.
      I wish I could comfort you here. Tell you everything will be alright..but I can’t dare say that. The void…the lonliness. I can only imagine.
      The next time I see you…I hope we can hug. Maybe I can share a lil’ bit of your pain.
      Take care there,,,and I hope the memories will stop haunting you and provide you with a way to heal…
      Hugs..

    • KALI 11:58 am on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      wish life could go back and take a turn ……. where everyone of us could see her smile one more time …
      dont really have words to comfort u …..
      take care

    • Kay 5:39 pm on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      “Damn there’s no God. Nothing but the devil persists.”

      I am also not much of a believer in god. So I can understand what you may be feeling.

    • sajjan 5:58 pm on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      i dont have any words to make u feel good…..i can feel what happens when somebody close to us leaves us…..i cant just imagine the pain and loneliness….

      i dont say may god give u strength(there is no such things like the damn god)….so i would like u to create strength to heal the pain though complete healing is not possible….i feel so sorry to know about this…..
      take care dear

    • k 7:41 pm on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      hey,
      i know how u feel. the feeling tht she’s still here n not gone. the way u can’t believe that she’s gone. n if i know u, she’ll never be gone. u’ll be talking to her in ur thoughts, seeing her in ur memories n going through all the ups n downs right in front of her. she’ll always be alive for you, as my mom’s for me. it hurts during those times that people remind u of her, thinking that they’re saying just the right thing to comfort u. people r just trying to help but they hav no clue what they’re actually doin. sometimes u wish them just to shut up n say nothing.

      n abt the “strength to go on..” well, u always have it in u. don know where it comes from. but everyone has it. just do what u feel like doin n time takes care of the rest.

      luv u

    • k 7:47 pm on May 22, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      don know where ppl go when they’re dead. but i think they stay back with us. in our hearts. so that u can snuggle in for that warmth when u most need it. so that u always have someone to talk to even if u’re miles away from a single living soul.

    • mrrdx 7:16 pm on May 23, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      wish it be just a bad dream but when it becomes a recurring one, have to adapt to live with it. empty spaces and vacant places have been left behind which cannot be filled.. but they are to be accepted..
      soche jasto hunna jeevan.
      jasto bhogyo ustai huncha..
      a small negligence can be big enough to end a life.. never take anything for granted….anything can end a life and save a life…

    • Kay 12:02 am on May 24, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Though it’s stark difficult to control oneself in this sort of situation, we should not forget that death is the only ultimate truth.

      I too am unaware where does “life” go after passing away. Is there heaven sort of thing?

      I pray for the piece of your alter ego’s soul.

      Amen.

    • Kay 12:09 am on May 24, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Though it’s stark difficult to control oneself in this sort of situation, we should not forget that death is ultimate truth in the world with life.

      I too am unaware where does “life” go after passing away. Is there heaven sort of thing?

      I pray for the peace of your alter ego’s soul. For mukti in fact. This world is full of misery. So.

      Amen

    • all of Us 2:19 pm on June 2, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
      blue skies from pain.
      Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
      A smile from a veil?
      Do you think you can tell?
      And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
      Hot ashes for trees?
      Hot air for a cool breeze?
      Cold comfort for change?
      And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
      How I wish, how I wish you were here.
      We’re just two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl, year after year,
      Running over the same old ground.
      What have we found? The same old fears.
      Wish you were here.

      Lyrics from Pink Floyd

      I even ponder where do we go after death…
      I think she have now became a shining star in the sky watching us from above…she is always with us only thing is we cant see her…….i cannot feel what you felt at that time…but…..

      The world’s a roller coaster and I am not strapped in. Maybe I should hold with care,but my hands are busy in the air.(Incubus)

      Things are not what they used to be
      Missing one inside of me
      Deathly lost, this cant be real
      Cannot stand this hell I feel

      Yesterday seems as though it never existed

      timro hasilo muhar ko jhajalko jab auncha asoo ka dhara bahana thalchan……..

      whatever we do only memory remains…

      the life we’ve left is dedicated to her……………

  • Zadexpress 4:12 pm on May 13, 2007 Permalink | Reply  

    Bad Days, Chalega!! 

    The TV should have been my preoccupation. But its not. The stereo then but amazingly it is not either. The FMs have nothing interesting at this time of the day which is 3:50 pm in my table clock. Maybe they do but I don’t know because I am not supposed to be home at this time of the day. I had a class to attend so I took the bus. Got a seat, lucky me! And the route changed from Tinkune, the hell with these rallies. I spent thirty minutes suffocating in the bus because of the same while coming home from college in the morning and now the bus is supposed to discover a new route to Ratnapark! I wasn’t angry then, just certain that I would reach my destination on time. Oh the optimistic me! So the bus headed towards Gaushala. The road to Purano Baneshwor was blocked. However the brave conductor removed the hurdle and the bus set rolling. I was glad. But as we reached the P.B Chowk the traffic policeman asked the driver to head to New Baneshwor rather than allowing it to take the Maitidevi route to Ratnapark. My temperature was on the rise. It kept escalating until we reached Baneshwor and I could take no more when the traffic there directed the bus back to the same goddamn route! What the …..! So, the passengers yelled but of no avail. I cursed my fate and got off the bus. Got on another and headed back home. An hour of journey to nowhere. An utter waste of time.

    That’s life. That is exactly what it is like to live in the capital of this country. Ah..I just want to get this frustrating experience out of my system.

    enough!

    Chalega Mentality. That’s the Nepalese way of doing things. Good roads-chalega, bad traffic-chalega, good grades-chalega, bad grades-tyo pani chalega. We’ve gotten used to all bad things in life. And increased our We live through the good and through the bad. Change? You ask us. We’ll all yell YEAH! We want Change. But the change in reality is nothing more than the change in “Chalege” circumstances we face.You might differ, but I know you not. You might be yelling “No more Chalega, I don’t want to put up with this crappy system anymore” but you are somewhere unseen, unheard probably only doing that in the solitude of your room, in the safe territories of your mind.

    Everyday is the same. Someday I walk out of home for college and it is the Araniko Highway closure because some driver was beaten up. The other day I am in Bagbazar and am informed this is the last bus back, no more when the last is literally exploding with people. The buses block the highway so what we walk on through the “Nali”. Oh, we’ve got soo many alternatives. So everything Chalega. I think we are immune to any goddamn bandas now, we are all comfortably numb to everything around us. That’s life. This is just enough of a change our so called Mahan Janaandolan 2 has brought. This is enough for me atleast to want anymore out of LOKTANTRA.

     
    • sajjan 5:15 pm on May 14, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      after reading this i bet the first thing comes to anyones mind is to salute u…though i do it first…..thumbs up dear zade….i also feel the same way u do….aba estai ho thikai chha bhanera ignore garne baani nepali(esp ktm’uits)harulai parisakyo….they just try to ignore the problem they are facing saying estai ho…what can we do and bla bla bla…..we dont emerge out to change the system we are running with….and who are we to change this????we are just nothing and no one….with no power and no wisdom enough to do it as well….nobody listens us and implementation of our ideas is out of question……banda ani andolan bhayena bhane nepali harulai k napugeko k jasto hune baani bhaisakyo…..sabai ko case ma….if u are heading somewhere and u reach there in time without encountering traffic jam…andolan…julus or something like that….u become surprised on urselves…achamma lagchha testo kei bhayena bhane…..let aside these bandhas…traffic jams are the main problem in the valley here….

      people are mishandling the word “andolan for something” and why wouldn’t they if they are to face this type of system of the country?????if u read the news u can see here andolan, there andolan …here killing, there killing…. here strike ,there strike …..and all this damn things…..we are sick and tired of this…….

      may be some time we all emerge out to solve these problems we are facing…..

      lets hope for this
      and this would happen some day
      thinking optimistically is good…..

      keep on blogging….u rock……
      take care

    • juggy 6:01 pm on May 14, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Zade my fren,
      The problem lies in the same old mentality the leadership is having; not in the system!! Loktantra lost the meaning because the leaders define it in the way they want it to; Maoist have their own way of defining it and others have their own way of defining it!!
      And above all I personally feel Girija is never a good leader!! He is the worst of the leader I have ever seen; cunningly stern he is, he was one of the reason why the 12 years of earlier democracy days went haywire! Dhamija kanda, Lauda and those brutal killing during demonstrations and the Kilo Serra I and II during his era; not only that the corruption that peaked due to his and Deuba’s rivalry made the fuel that burned the democratic system people had fought for earlier on. The UML and other parties were not good either as their lifestyle skyrocketed from footpaths to the mahals filled in with belgian marbles and what not!!
      All of these culprits should have been punished and made accountable; but instead of a good system who did it: a more corrupt leader who had came into rise with a conspiracy that killed his own brother in background and a street goon son on foreground!!
      I would vote any day to make all these corrupt leaders stand in an open ground and shoot them each on point blank range; And shooters should be the people who had suffered a loads from their atrocities i.e. Nepalese common people!!
      Maoists had created some hope in their earlier days, but they are more blinded with their gun power and they can’t see anything behind that!! They are just another case of the blinded mentality; Be with us or get ditched!!
      I am just hoping for a day when we all people can rise from a ground zero and give our country a headstart toward a new direction!! I can just hope for that day and work on my own way!! And I will surely try; keeping my faith on a good system that can make me feel free: free as a bird!!
      Hope you will not lost your hope too!!
      And that surely had become one heck of lecture!! :P
      Hope u hadn’t slept reading it!! ;)
      Have a good day fren!!
      P.S.- Is A fighter in your blogroll Kamlesh?? Just a common query because I felt the way of writing kinda same!! Feel free if u don’t want to answer!! :)

    • Nonameplease 10:47 pm on May 14, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Bad time going on here too.

    • ZaDeD 12:24 pm on May 15, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Frustrated, in short. Confused as usual m on the verge of insanity like most here..but you are in a way lucky Sajjan, to be staying in college its hell to be travelling from one end of the city to the other everyday. n these bhaktapur minibuses which are an insult to the Mercedez sign they carry damn bus pani vanna manlagdaina man. Feels more like Bhaktapur Dhwangs , I mean tin ka tyanka! yes and we are all used to every sort of nuisance..last time my teacher was telling us of a rally which had the slogans saying “the hailstorm destroyed the crops so we need Ganatantra in Nepal!!” look at our own insanity! what link has hailstorm with Ganatantra??!!?? We Nepalese need medical help I guess! And I think even I could lie down on the road someday and have a Banda because I couldn’t complete my assignments on time!! huncha ni, yahan ta je pani chalega. I wonder if everyone’s Insanity has become the accepted Sanity now. YCL re, Goit this tat hatiyar le mattikeyaka chan sab….pura desh lai je vaye ni Bal matlab vanne rog lage jasto cha!! N nothing could make more sense than “Point blank range” shooting I agree Juggy. I want to do the same to anyone who lies, I despise liars so and just attained the Brahmagyan that that is exactly the kind of leaders we have. Switzerland banuchu re…kasto bakwash kura kya, sundai gayera galama marnegari thaapad haniduin jasto…but what talk of the leaders..they were always the same. So I think maybe if we the citizens acted sanely then we would have something to our credit of sanity and hold them accountable. But aba ta hami nai baulayisakyaun, so who can hold anyone else accountable? Damn frustrating and I am so sick of complaining too ah..so finding joys in in these bus rides like standing right on the edge of Bhaktapur ka tyanka and feeling like a bus conductor. Its fun!! Ktm ko dhule hawa khana. Seriously :) m hopeful..someday I hope everyone’s actions here makes some sense to themselves.

      n for the afighter query. Nope, that’s not Kamlesh’s blog. The writer is a girl. Namely Afighter :)

    • sajjan 4:20 pm on May 15, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      ya a bit lucky in this case….dont need to face those bandhas and jams over here…and i feel lucky in another sense as well…i dont need to face the dhuwa and dhulo of kathmandu….i can breathe fresh air over here…the best part over here is the environment….and about the mercedees logo….that mercedes logo might probably be the only thing they have saved …all other parts of the vehicle might have been changed….i bet there are no vehicles(mini buses on bkt route)newer than late 70’s……they should have been replaced a long time ago but those newars of bkt……tiniharule aafno route ma aru gadi ta halna didainan …tyo pani hataune ho bhane k chai garne hun……u see…sabai testai bus chan ni….

      instead i give u a suggestion…..u dont need to walk muh from koteswor or jadibuti…..so u better take buses for koteswor or jadibuti and then walk home …ali ali exercise thapinchha timro legs lai…..

      ani desh ko kura ta k garnu….sadhai estai ho….jwala samuha ra goit ko fight with maoists…with others…..k k ho k k….and the most disappointing thing is the YCLs….tiniharu le k socheka chhan…tiniharu ko bau ko birta ho ra yo desh jata pani hastachhep garnajane???????yo kura ma chai malai ekdum naramro lagchha…..usai ta maoist mann naparne tesmathi tiniharu le gareko testo kaam le garda jahai mann pardaina malai ta…..

      anyways tiniharu ko k kura garnu.,….

      u remember my suggestion….take care

    • keshuvko 10:42 pm on May 17, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Bhaktapur route maa Mercedes Benz.
      Banepa ko maa Daimler!

    • Prajwol 3:07 am on May 18, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Like Dor Bahadur Bista said “Nepali and Fatalism”, you’ve now coined new word “chalega”. When you look these sort of things from abroad it seems insane, but people are still living simply because they adhere to “Chalega” . We are used to so many bandh’s, now how abt Chalega bandh?

    • René 11:15 am on May 18, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      I am looking from far abroad and even farther outside, and I have to say it doesn’t really seem that insane.

      As for adherance, that is always going to exist and so is “chalenga”….

      But then aren’t we all just striving to step out of that box?

    • Prajwol 7:31 pm on May 18, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Rene.

      We all are striving to step out of that box, agreed. As far as being insane, it depends on how we define it. I don’t think in Georgia you have to encounter a road blockade because a passenger bashed a bus driver and the whole buses in the city stop operating, not just stop operating but blocked the way for other to pass. I don’t think in Illinois you have to worry if you are headed to the airport and there are mass rallies going on, blocking every access to airport. These incidents are not once in a life time, its happening almost every other day. I think every citizen has rights to a normal life, but there are so many varibles driving the uncertainities. Has your telecommunication or Internet service been stripped because some ruler wants to assume power unlawfully? We have encountered that. Looking at all these activities and many more (which is indefinite to explain) how can we say it’s sane. I know optimism is what we require, but it’s hard to ascertain that when we have to keep living in the same place for rest of our life, compared to someone who was just there for four months. Even though at present I live abroad but I was there for more than two decades.

      Anyways, It was nice to hear a different perspective.

    • René 5:43 am on May 20, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      I was not trying to say that my life in America may compare to Nepal. But, I do think that Nepal is not the only place in the world where problems such as there, exist.

      There are also places outside of Nepal where worse things happen every day.

      As for bad things happening, they are also all relative. What may be bad for one could be no big deal to another, but would that make it feel any less horrible to the person? No they would still feel like it was just bad.

      Secondly, Do I know you? I find it odd that you would mention Georgia. I can see it would be easy to see that I live in Chicago, Illinois, but knowing GA is a bit odd to me.

    • Prajwol 10:29 pm on May 20, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Rene,

      I am definitely not picking on you, if I sounded that I am sorry. Many things happening around the world are far worse than what Nepalese have to endure. That’s why I said definition of insanity differs from each context. We all like to compare ourselves with sth better than sth worse, which is typical of human nature. Nepalese tolerating all these mishaps are certainly below par of basic living norm of a civilized country. And other places that you have mentioned are simply inhuman.

      No, I dont know you. I went thru u’r resume, that’s how I figured Georgia :D

      Peace……..

    • annitya0 9:18 am on May 21, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Rene is right about the things like that don’t happen only in Nepal. Just last week, we read about the outrage in Argentina from CNN. Train was late there and the people tried to burn the train and vandalized the shops in the stations. Many people got injured. ‘Shutdowns’ like ‘Bandh’s do also happen in countries like Italy too. But I’m not trying to justify that it is good. It is certainly bad.

  • Zadexpress 8:47 am on May 1, 2007 Permalink | Reply  

    Bridim homestay( Day 2 Trip) 

    Wasn’t listening to this song. But it was being repeatedly played in my head. Especially these “chalu” lines. And God knows why! But I like the “Bal matlab” attitude here: “We just don’t care…..

    “Let’s go to the park
    I wanna kiss u underneath the stars
    Maybe we’ll go too far
    We just don’t care
    We just don’t care
    We just don’t care………

    John Legend:(We Just Don’t Care)

    We were on the way to Bridim. It is three hours walk from Syafrubesi. You can take your time and make it four/five, your wish, your pace. There were five or six people before me. Way ahead. I called out to her in the middle of the journey but received no answer. “Keti pakkai Tethrathum kai raiche” I concluded. Ha ha ha And as the walk progressed I was convinced of my own “hard-core-hilly-origins” too! Genetic, I concluded! The rest were at and equal distance behind me. I walked somewhere in between the two groups, in an unusual route feeling somewhat lost but good. Tiring journey though, gulped down bottles and bottles of water and was sweating like a pig obviously ( a short walk in KTM turns my face into a dark red tomato, so you can picturize my color status then!). The black t-shirt was not helping at all. On the way I picked up two rhododendrons!! Yes, I was finally able to accomplish my own “Afno laligurans afain tipaun” Aviyan. :)

    laligurans

    Maile affain tipeko ho ke! :) dui ota! yeah he he he

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    • juggy 9:09 am on May 1, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Feelings are to be respected no matter who has it!! and It is only possible in a CIVILISED society!! And I think thats the ideal case I am talking about!! :)
      Is it to be continued?? Nice travelogue!! I wish to write a book about my travel around Nepal someday!! :)
      BTW, After u have gone public from so many magazines pheri yehan chhain raati rumaal lagayera maaobadi kina baneko ni?At first I was jhasangai!! Later I realized that was DUPLICATE mask!! ;)

    • ZaDeD 9:16 am on May 1, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Paristhiti janya badyata thiye the magazine thing kya…just wanted to gain an experience and now have enuf man…. I have a million things to comment on that zpt reporting there.. will do someday… n I wonder how many I “jhaskaing” and “heart attack giving” by my smile through tat, so m being considerate wearing masks :) n for the civilized society thing there…hmm ali bujhina for now maybe feri comment re-read garepachi will get something….ma “ghotliyin” on it for now .. :)

    • kp 1:48 pm on May 1, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      you are prolific bloger. i red some todey. i m also blog learn you.

    • Deelip 2:23 pm on May 1, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Sounds really intresting.
      Never heard about bridim before anyway.

    • Reality Bites 5:46 pm on May 1, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Love to read everyword here ……..
      Thanks.

    • annitya 9:33 am on May 2, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      I’m still feeling bitter about your telling him to walk on the other side of the road.

    • juggy 6:23 pm on May 2, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Hahahaha Annitya!! I think U got into same situation some tyam huh!! :P
      BTW!! I found that completely hilarious!! Well if that would have said to me I would have left her nowhere and returned to Kathmandu!! ;)
      But he is good fren I think and He walked on other side!! Lucky you are zade to get such fren! ! :D
      BTW by civilised society I mean to say:
      Have u ever put urself in the feet of someone disabled and seen the world through them?? I mean no matter how hard we try we get to be influenced by the fact that we have to help such people!! We feel kind of Daya to them; but thats not what they really want!! They want the respect and they can be much more capable than us!! We can help them if they ask for; but we should respect them for the fight they are taking to stand with us what we called able!!They are much more able than us that way; and I personally feel proud of someone like Jhamak because She choose to stand and that too with a mark!! :)
      Just my personal two cents and yeah I am also disabled; through the brain!! :P
      P.S.- I too feel kinda daya for disabled ppl when I first see them because we are raised that way!! But on second thought I always put myself on their feet and respect them for their continuous fight they are taking!! They deserve much more respect that us!! :D
      Have a nice day Zade!! :)

    • AiEmMe 12:35 am on May 3, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      i did not comment because i too did not enjoy zade shooing off the poor guy.

      who is better the one who peeped you guys in the room or your friend who obeyed you/ :P

      yes, it’s true we need to change our attitude; we should not leave the disabled or differently abled people or even mentally retarded ones.

      you reminded me one real story; i will write sometime later as an entry. thanks for giving me “blog ideas” (patrakaar haru lai sandhai “story idea” ko khancho hunchha ni jasari, malai blog idea ko khancho chha :) )

      btw, you would have dealt with Jhamak. YOu missed the chance. I have noticed that the disabled hate sympathy. Hoina ta? (I am also sort of disabled ke. Dimaag ko disability chha. heheh :) )

    • annitya 5:19 am on May 3, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      wrong guess, juggy; but I just didn’t understand what was going on. I’ll try reading that post again. But it was not nice unless the guy had done something wrong.

    • ZaDeD 5:53 am on May 3, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      hmm for the Jhamak part.. well well well until and unless I relate everything abt the meeting you won’t get it……still yah sympathy exists…unwantingly..but the case was totally differently so I guess I was in awe more than sympathetic… i know some pretty smart differently abled people and then I don’t feel sympathetic or anything like that..but just like us. yah I regret not having a proper meeting with Jhamak though. And I’m sure I will get the opportunity someday :)

      n for all your sympathy to the poor guy as you seem to have understood and of course the way I have portrayed too, well, he isn’t bitter about that. So chill guys. And any guy not doing what he could have , thinking others would have in my case but I Didn’t , doesn’t make him any gentleman or whatever ( the term I have begun to despise these days) either…its fine if you don’t get it….I just don’t want to discuss the Pokhara trip anymore ( the reason I closed the comments section)…somethings are better forgotten…tehi ho…Hope it made some sense…but thanks for the comments.

    • annitya 8:21 am on May 3, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      Well, if you don’t want to talk about it; I’m sorry for dragging you into it then.

    • dhungana 10:41 am on May 3, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      going through this entry i m feling as if i am once again in Briddim expereincing the same fun, exicetement and a bit fear seeing that man who almost gave us a big shock peeping in our room while i was changing, i was agaun shocked shocked to see no curry in our dinner as i had expected good food that night. any way it was definately big fun and no dought that every moment we spent in bridddim will be memorable.

    • Kishan 9:07 am on May 12, 2007 Permalink | Reply

      It was one of those memorable moment of your life while you were having the biggest (I hope I did not underestimate you) adventure. Do you know when I went to Frozen Lake (Gosainkunda; it was not frozen while I was there), I had to sleep in bed for 4 days. It was just a walk pure walk on Off-the-beaten tracks of the Langtang!!! So whatever you dare to do, will be a sort of Adventure there!!
      Tara khusi lagyo yo blog padhera…..

    • dawa 6:50 pm on August 1, 2009 Permalink | Reply

      Dear friend,
      Namaste!!!i am very happy to see about my village Bridim in your website.thank’s for your inform about my village Bridim.i also from bridim and my name is Dawa Tamang.
      hope you can make friendship with me and keep in touch.you can also link my website is http://www.dawasnepaltrek.com
      your sincerely friend,Dawa

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