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  • Still Not A Veggie? 

    Zadexpress 12:33 pm on March 30, 2008 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: climate change, vegetarian

    This is an accidental finding, was surfing for farmer’s rights, came across some interesting links and found all that I will put up below. Well, the Glories of Being A Vegetarian once again!

    another inconvinient truth
    Source:Another inconvenient truth.org

    Here are some compelling facts to begin with:

    In April, researchers at the University of Chicago showed that a person eating an average American diet contributes the equivalent of about 1 1/2 tonnes more CO2 to the atmosphere each year than does a person on a vegan diet. That’s more than the difference between driving a Hummer H3 and a Toyota Prius 5,000 kilometers in the city. Startlingly, fully a third of the raw materials consumed in North America are used in meat ‘production.’ Half- to three-quarters of all grain grown in North America is used for this purpose. So is some 15% of fossil fuels. The livestock industry is responsible to an astounding degree for the pollution of our air, lands and waterways.

    Nearly three quarters of North American ammonia emissions are due directly or indirectly to animal farming. According to the Worldwatch Institute, farm animals around the world generate 130 times as much bodily waste as the entire human population.

    The raising of livestock and the soybeans to feed them is easily the number one contributor to rainforest destruction. More than two acres of tropical rainforest is being cleared per second to graze or feed farm animals. Around the world, topsoil to the tune of tens of billions of tons are lost each year to cultivation of animal feed crops. Raising animals is an incredibly inefficient process.

    Depending on the animal, it takes 2 to 10 lbs of grain to get one pound of meat. Think how much less destruction would attend a human world devoted to feeding itself directly with plant foods!
    Source: A N O T H E R INCONVENIENT TRUTH

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    • Bea Elliott 5:39 pm on March 31, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Seems like the world wants to stay in denial of all the facts behind the animal industries…… Bad for the planet, bad for workers, bad for consumers – horrible for the animals:

      March 25th – the AWI released it’s 5 year study on Slaughterhouses in the US. Gail Eisnitz worked with FSIS officials….. Called “Crimes without Consequences” can be seen here:
      http://www.awionline.org/farm/humane_slaughter_report.htm

      It’s amazing how much report the “downed Hallmark cows” got – and so little on practices happening (to workers and animals) everyday. Very corrupt…..

      For health & heart….. Go Vegan!

    • keshuvko 3:56 pm on April 3, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Once I tried to be vegan. But it was almost impractical.

      I am a lactovegetarian.

  • Hasta la vista, baby 

    Zadexpress 2:01 pm on March 29, 2008 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: farewell letter, goodbyes

    I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
    You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
    May you never take one single breath for granted,
    God forbid love ever leave you empty handed,
    I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
    Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
    Promise me that you’ll give faith a fighting chance,
    And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.

    I hope you dance….i hope you dance.

    Miss You, is not what I want to say. You know the reason. I’ve seldom missed anyone in my life, other than when they are gone altogether. So, this letter won’t have a “Miss You” anywhere. Still, I will always remember our last meeting on the road. I don’t know about you but I was noticing the “cyenide” (the spelling error) on the wall behind us. Your “Bye” and the “Cyenide” , I was wondering who in the world had time to scribble that. And every time I turned around to see you leave I was embarrassed to see you still waving your hand! It felt strange because I have only watched people leave. I’ve turned back to watch them walk away but never been caught doing so. Real stupid, wasn’t it? To meet on the road when we can’t predict our next meeting. The goodbye protocols make me feel awkward as I am bad with emotions, and you are too when I show mine. Thought I hadn’t noticed? Hehe, I am the observer, my dear.

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    • k 11:10 pm on March 29, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      is she, if she is from SSS, leaving already? she has grown up to be beautiful, hasn’t she? well, all the best wishes to her and her good spirit.
      n if u r reading this, take good care of urself. c ya sometime in new road again. ma bihe ma bolaunchu ni la.

    • Zadexpress 9:17 am on March 30, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Yah she left last Thursday. Hmm yah, all that regular swimming cum jogging etc and how can I forget the grooming, was saying makeup equipment matra 4thouko kineko!They need it I guess. Now that she has turned into a new leaf, I am very much hopeful that Czan is growing up to be a beautiful lady too(I will be right someday! ) :)

      N I don’t think she will read this, coz c doesn’t know I blog, I’ve never told her. I’d told her I wrote articles, she was angry I didn’t tell her early….well, let her discover this blog, if she can :) so I never tell that( kasto dhak lako jasto lagcha…)

      Ani tapainko bihe chahin kaile ni, manche bolaunai hatar! Oh, please don’t push me to the bottom of the list..plzzz LOL Met any architect eggn in recent times? ( i.e outside “Fountainhead”) :wink: hehehehe

    • rEaLiTy BiTeS 4:01 pm on March 30, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      You can’t change others; you can only be the change you want to see.
      :) ………..Really touchy analysis ……….but more confusing about who is She ? …………

    • k 10:05 pm on March 30, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      :)
      yo entry ma ta tapai nikai nai bhabuk hunubho ni. touched me too. kind of sobering. i’m not so hopeful abt czan though ! just kiddin, aba ta hamra din gaye budha budhi ho bhanne palo aayo. but plz, u should let her read this – it’s her right to information tht concerns her. m sure c’ll be touched n will feel warmer amid strange faces. plz think abt tht n for once forget abt being the no-emotion-no-entanglement Roark.

      maile ta roark nai paina bhanya. HE’s gonna go bride hunting tom morn ! :( jyotishi le malai chandai biha gar bhanya cha k, tesaile. plz prepare a srijanshil and sushil architect engineer for me, ma aaundai chu ;)

      u’l not be in the bottom of the list, honey. all of us probably expect that, so u can rest assured tht it’s not happening. j sochyo tesko ulto huncha ni jindagi ma. HE gave me a short lecture about things i didn’t knw abt myself today. so sad its happening :(

      :D april fool :(

    • shaurabh 10:38 am on April 2, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Don’t know shud be commenting on this kinda personal blog coz nwdays zade is writing quite personal blogs even with passwords!!!!!!!!!!!!!!But still this blog is a true sadistic farewell.

    • Zadexpress 12:04 pm on April 3, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      well past April Fool’s day so replying to ur query. I think you didn’t MEAN this post is “bhabuk” in the real sense of the term! It ISN’T. and I am not trying to be no emotion-no entanglement either here, come on, where is EMOTION? I did “write” her a letter, in the “lokta” paper you had given me, remember? :) Actually I’ve written quite a few letters in that …well, I write the best letters , in case u didn’t know! LOL Anyways, the letter I wrote her was less emotions than this! C’going to another country ( Truly Asia-get it?) for Training re. And the very first mail had “there are some Cheap Minded Men here” written on it!! Cheap minded re, had me laughing! Sounded just like SSSko bhasha! :)

      And for thy Roark…wat can I say, Architect bhaneni Artist bhaneni or Designer vaneni, j vaneni wahan nai tapainko Hero hunuhunecha! As for me not being in the bottom of the list, well, I ‘ll have to find The Ultimate Farmer I guess coz have fallen in loooooooooove wit this thing I’m involved in these days. Why isn’t farming hip like Architect engineering? :wink: Btw didn’t c u in college. Wat r ur elections plan?

      and reply to Mr Shaurabh:

      Well, Shaurabhji this blog’s Tagline “freeing my mind” says It all…I blog to FREE MY MIND, thereby a personal blog. As far as the password protected writing is concerned, that wasn’t planned. I had freed my MIND to such an extent in the blog that I had a comment from sb who considered oneself to be the ILLUSIONIST telling me to protect or delete it. I thought for a while, weighed the pros and cons and decided to do it coz the entry had real quick visitors ( unlike other visitors in my blog) which could lead to other problems due to the BLATANT nature of the writing……….will open it someday when I think Mass awareness raising is required!! :)

    • shaurabh 12:01 pm on April 8, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      waitin for that day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
      mass awareness in Nepal hopefully!!!!!!!!!!

  • Maya: The Illusionist 

    Zadexpress 10:20 am on March 28, 2008 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Illusion., Maya

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    • Anbika 11:28 am on March 28, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      my request you not to vomit like this because due to one news paper i m having very high time. Please delete this post or protect it from password. but its up to you. someone told me to read your site which I had stopped reading long time ago.

  • What of the US Presidential elections to a Nepalese woman: It’s the revival of the Gender Debate 

    Zadexpress 2:05 pm on March 25, 2008 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: Gender debate, , US presidential elections

    What of the US Presidential elections to a Nepalese woman? Forget, the influence of US as the Super Power for the time being. Most Nepalese women, would barely know of all the economic diplomacy the country is credited for. US, is but America, to them ( they don’t know of North and South America though) where young people go to study these days. And any guy back from “America” would be the most secure option for their daughters. Still, that would be a minuscule of the entire woman population of Nepal. If most of them could communicate in “slangy” American-English I bet they would say “What the F*** is US presidential elections?” That’s the woman scenario.

    nepalese women
    We, the Women of Nepal.

    The men are a different breed altogether ,aren’t they? Reminds me of a woman journalist who was sharing the problems of a being a one in Nepal. She wakes up to prepare food for the children, the family, ready them for school. Then there is work. Back from work, the domestic chore has to continue. “The men gather for tea after /before work” she said. “Discuss politics, current affairs.” When does a woman have time for all that “caucusing”? That contributes to their lagging behind at times too. So, if that’s a woman journo has to say you can pretty much picturize the situation of the rest. Yah, you could make an “attempt” to make a point by stating “why can’t she look at the news rather than the Hindi-soap operas?” . But I got a good reply for that too, so keep that nuisance to yourself!

    women fetching water
    Two women sharing the water load on the steps of Gorkha Durbar while I was journeying to the palace in my “leisure”.

    In spite of it all, there is a privileged class of women too, I can’t deny the fact that I am one of them( at least in this context). But caucusing about politics is not my cup of tea, caucusing about anything really for that matter. ( Could be an outcome of not being able to sell myself too). Let me keep that part aside for now and stick to writing which is Indeed my Cuppa Tea :) . So, what of the US presidential elections to me? Keeping aside the US Superpower reality and the Obama Charm so they say, it’s the “Female” thing. An English Man Very Much Politics Interested , friend of mine was telling me how “cunning” ( if I am not mistaken) the Clintons are. ( Correct me, if I got it wrong). But I know nothing of that( I admit my ignorance). Hillary’s all forgiving nature, in the Monica-Lewinsky affair has never inspired me either. But if she won the candidacy and eventually became the First Lady I would undoubtedly celebrate the Victory of A Woman.

    women
    Source: Internet

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    • haha 6:26 pm on March 26, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      seems she again requires a lamo ! Just wondering if we are seeing a budding feminist .. . . . . . . .. the usuual west-produced useless creatures? Good Luck la ! MAke Big money and career by talking these stuffs ? OR anybody believes here that she is intervening against the debauchery and political pornography that’s rocking the nation? By the way , I didn’t read what she to say above ?

    • Ujjwal Acahrya 6:49 pm on March 26, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Though I have a likening for Obama (as if it mattered!), the issues you have raised on women empowerment touched me. I always believed that education is the key – both for women and men. I understand that NGO programs will help, but if I am a woman, I would feel proud to be on par with men by competency rather than quota and the long-term plan should focus on that.

    • middleXeast 10:14 am on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      I posted this article entitle “An army of ten thousand women who hate men: Gulabi Gang” in my web log while ago. You might be interested to check it out: http://themiddleeastinterest.wordpress.com/2008/02/23/the-gulabi-gang-hate-men-and-rightfully-so/

    • Dikshya 11:22 am on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      This is the right moment to elect a woman American president and America will not be it’s right mind if it doesn’t do so. It’s a shame that in Nepal, women have not been elected proportionally as candidates in the Constituent Assembly. We have a long way to go and ‘women with voices’ like yours do make a change. We know what we want and why we don’t have it. We are also sure someday women will rule and the world will be a better place to live.

  • 10 

    Zadexpress 12:55 pm on March 21, 2008 Permalink |
    Tags: TEN

    And because people aren’t dolls that get lost, while you think they‘re being hidden somewhere to be found, your understanding of life is really flawed either due to ignorance or simply because you are incapable of comprehending it. I could be wrong, but I know: I am right.
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  • SLOGANS ARE NOT SOLUTIONS 

    Zadexpress 1:29 pm on March 15, 2008 Permalink | Reply
    Tags: constituent assembly Nepal, slogans are not solutions

    The easiest way of blogging would be to put up a couple of pictures and use the over-used excuse ” Pictures tell a thousand words”…may be or may be not. Sometimes pictures tell the story, other times stories paint the picture. Nevertheless I hope these pictures help you understand life in Nepal better!!

    The Theme of these Pictures are of course ‘SLOGANS ARE NOT SOLUTIONS’.

    BHOKTANTRA

    We do not have kerosene, gas, water, diesel, petrol and electricity. Does this country have The Government of Nepal or not? What is this: Loktantra ( democracy) or Bhoktantra( Hungercracy!)?

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    • mp 1:53 pm on March 15, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      pictures do “tell a thousand words”, especially if we know the context.

      it used to be “singapore dream”, now its “$3000 dream” !?!

    • aAkaR 10:55 pm on March 15, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      yeah, slogans are not solutions…..यहाँ पेट्रोल,डिजेल,ग्यास,मट्टितेल,बिजुली पाइएन भनेर हामी त्यही बन्द र हड्ताल मा ओर्लन्छौँ तर यसको विकल्प पनि छ भनेर हामी कहिले सोच्दैनौँ,सायद यो नै हामी नेपालीहरु को पहिचान होला । ……. यो अभाव को दुनियाँ मा यस्तै छ , देशका सर्वसाधारण जनतालाई बिहान-बेलुका छाक टार्न गाह्रो छ,सँधै बन्द र हड्ताल छ साथै ग्यास,मट्टितेल,पेट्रोल,डिजल,पानी,सुरक्षाको अभाव छ । ….. only a problem and no solution….

    • Basanta 1:35 pm on March 17, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      That poem by Chhetrapratap Adhikari is very good.

    • k 10:16 am on March 21, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      HAPPY HOLI !!!! its a beautiful day. hope u had lots of fun. c ya l8er. fountainhead left me sad :(

    • Ametya 8:46 am on January 16, 2009 Permalink | Reply

      राष्ट्रियताभन्दा जीवन ठुलो हो । जीवनको खोजीमा राष्ट्रियता मर्दैछ । म मार्न चाहन्न तर जिवित राख्न सक्ने म मा सामर्थ्य रहेन ।

      के हरेक युवाको प्रतिनिधि म टुलुटुलु आफ्नो राष्ट्रियता मर्न दिइरँहु ? ? ?

      अभाव, अराजकता, अस्थिरताको बिच म मेरो राष्ट्रियतालाई कसरी जोगाउने ? ? ? साथै राष्ट्रियता संगसंगै जीवन कसरी बचाउने ? ? ?

      उत्तरको अपेक्षामा हरेक एक युवा ।

  • I love you, but you love meat:Many vegetarians say they cannot date anyone who eats meat 

    Zadexpress 1:31 pm on March 14, 2008 Permalink | Reply
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    An interesting article for People in love with a different preference of food..Early in the month of February, we( a bunch of girls from school) got together in NDs as usual and the discussion shifted to men cause two of my friends were about to get married then, ( one did a week back) ..and the conversation, for a little while, revolved around the prospective as well as the ‘men’ in our lives.. Everyone’s pride was “He Doesn’t Drink”, THANK GOD. Others were “occasionally”..and so on and so forth. And as most of us there were Veggies too, “the guy” being one mattered too.

    Two guys, with ditto traits , but one’s a veggie, the other’s not then I would close my eyes and choose the veg! ( as if I got any choice!) :wink: Still, that’s a thought. The bottom line is Food Matters! Or else, we would all rather date on the railings of sidewalks than have coffees, wouldn’t we? And its hard looking at the carnivorous man, tearing the “Masu” from the bone across the table if you are a veg! So , this should make a good read. Njoy!

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    • James 3:15 pm on March 16, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      do u have to be a veggie to get into ur college? really u grasseaters r ok in these days of bird flu n mad cow what what but shouldn’t stray onto masu eaters terrain. i mean “veg momo” – surely an oxymoron?maybe we need autonomous food states…

    • roshani bhujel 9:55 pm on March 16, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      i was very happy when i first read this article,i found new taste on reading this,something contrast from other.i hope k many other different articles may published which would be totally different than other. keep it up and the one geniune thing is that all the vege don’t go along with the meat eater………..

    • k 10:02 am on March 21, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      nice article, and very true too. u can’t expect veggies to get cuddly with someone who’s breath stinks of meat. n the carnivore, if he or she really cares about his or her vegan half, should at least have the decency to avoid meat at the presence of the other. baahira j khaye pani k matlab, usko agadi nakhaikana basna ta sakcha hola ni. n it really pisses me off when a group of meat eaters have to have a singai kukhura which costs an arm and a leg in the remote parts of nepal n the vegans have to chip in for such ‘luxury’ as well. m talking abt a particular someone i know who has to gobble the vegan share like he hasn’t eaten for days n then proceed to gobble the poor chicken as well.

      please guys, have a bit of decency and consideration towards the others. and for god’s sake, please don’t make others pay for your carnivorous desires.

    • Zadexpress 1:11 pm on March 21, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Ha ha ha! I wonder who that EATER is? Still there is the other kind of carnivores too who think they are doing a GREAT favor to the vegetarians if they state: ” Oh yah, that’s good. I’m thinkin of turning into a veg myself.” As if saying that will make them look any better in our eyes! They are the sayers.

      The other kind resolves to be veg every once a month and have to repeat their ‘attempt’ at being veg, as if its the most interesting thing for the poor vegetarian listener! That leaves me to stick to the notion:You can never trust a carnivore! :wink:

      N I think Roark and Dominique have a rather, Impossible kind of love story in Fountainhead.the ending thereby made me happy..a great book nevertheless..idealistic yet real. No success comes without a bit of idealism mero bicharma, ki hoina?

    • mp 6:25 am on March 22, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      true. i switch every few years – its like a cycle for me…5 years vegetarian, other 5 non-veggie, and so on… but is carnivore the right term for us, i always though myself as an omnivore ;)

    • k 10:00 pm on March 23, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      i felt sorry for gail wynand – the man who could be. :( roark seems too cold for emotions (though not quite true) so it’d feel ok even if he didnt get dominique at the end. maybe i’d have liked it better if roark had been jailed or sth.. sth of a tragic note. but then ayn rand obviously wanted the ‘ideal man’ to win in the end – the man who ought to be. but it’s a lot of idealism stuffed into a single man, that’s probably impossible but then who knows. i like the way writers often pick out not-so-good-looking people and turn them into heroes. u start liking them by understanding what’s inside them n a ‘good lookin’ picture of tht person comes into ur mind whenever u think abt him/her (u tend to forget that he’s an ugly podgy man) , unlike in movies where u start liking the bodily features of peter ( ? ) – the ’spiderman’ boy halfway thru the movie because he can pull stunts like that.

      it’s always a dissappointment watching movies made out of novel that u have read. it really spoils the imaginary world we’ve created while reading the story.

      ani ‘no success comes without a bit of realism ‘ bhanna le k bhanna khojnu bhayeko ho ni? maile ta bujhina

    • k 11:03 pm on March 23, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      mp ji lai euta sano kura….. dherai omnivore ko jigyasa chahin ‘veggie le khas ma k khancha? ‘ bhanne huncha. most of their diet consists of meat. carnivores le birami hunda herbs n leaves khoje jastai manche omnivores le kahile kahin saag paat khane hola bhanera hami dui veggies le sabai omni ko naam carni rakhi diyeko. no confusion.

    • mp 12:55 pm on March 24, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      well, thanks for clarification k ji, i happen to be the type of “carnivore” who enjoys ghas-paat most of the time and only eat meat “birami huda”…by the way, i was thinking it would be fun to put my own little story titled “i love you AND meat, but you love ghas-paat” – but may be later…

    • k 10:01 am on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      no offense to any carnivore in the whole wide world. m just asking for a little consideration when it comes eatin out with a veggie, especially when it comes to couples. m not against meat or its eaters. ‘i love u and meat, BUT U LOVE GHASPAAT ‘ in like accusing all women of being ‘aggressive’ feminists (don’t rem the exact word though i’ve heard of it umpteem times from my teacher who also happens to be the ‘aggressive’ type of feminist, though, of course, she vehmently denies the fact). anyway, it’s goin out of course now. so lets say that ppl have every right to choose their own diet but no right to expect warm loving feelings from the ones whom they happen to offend due to their very choice of diet at just the wrong time.

    • middleXeast 10:04 am on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Thanks for the article, very informative.

      Go vegan!

    • k 11:13 am on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      got the word ! its ‘radical feminists’ . remembered it while i was doin the dishes. n my apologies to mp ji. m sure u didn’t mean any of the things i accused u of. u were just going by the title of the article. just made a fuss about nothing, maybe because of my empty stomach. now that i’ve fed myself, i see my mistake. sorry :(

      hey zade, kaha harako ho bhanya? naak mukh dekhdina ba? timro class ma ta baahaar nai aayecha ni, char jana le gpa 4 lyayera. bachhu sir le jasmine ko grade sheet herera maile 4 payein bhanera halla failaidinu bhayecha. mishra sir le congrats bhanna aaunda laaj laagera aayo :(

    • Zadexpress 11:44 am on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      hahaha , well is it all of us from school or only you and me? Our anger level shoots up like anything when hungry doesn’t it ?And that angry Young Lady is visible to everyone!

      We don’t have PH on Tue/Wednesday so that was the reason for not seeing my nak cum mukh in college. Anyways hajur ko result yesai babbal nai vayo hola ni. Congrats for whatever the grades :)

      Btw watched “Apple-cart” yesterday. It’s an insult to the cult of acting, I say! As for the Fountainhead discussion above, I meant success doesn’t come to people who aren’t ideal in one way or the other, whatever that be .. Though ideals cannot be attained, the attempt to reach them makes a difference vaneko. As for the Peter Keating looks and Roark character, I liked Roark , no sooner the book began with him standing on the rock….( not because that’s the Titanic pose :) ) And is he ugly? I think I painted a pic of him in my head disregarding the descriptions then….

      Still the one part ( among many), I disagree with Roark is when he tells Keating , its too late for him ( as Peter shows him his paintings in the later part of the book)..must be because I think it is never toooo late to mend ( i.e if you REALLY WANT THE CHANGE). even so Roark is too pretentious when it comes to his emotions, still I think that sheer dedication to his work is a lot of emotions too…remember that pic of Roark looking up at his building Gail Wynand has in his drawer? I picturized his look, and m in love with it!!hahaha Infact I was so in love with Roark while reading the book that his finding Dominique left me a bit sad :( , however I coped with her thinking ok…. she’s a D at least ! Had Roark been jailed, I would be devastated !!

      The truth, the deserving always wins in the end as it should hoina ra? Or is it a hoax too? I hope not…. that would really depress me ….

    • mp 1:46 pm on March 27, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      i can totally understand HUNGER and ANGER going together, so no need for apologies :) but i couldn’t help noticing in your comments the presumption of “vegetarians” being primarily female. it may be true…however, in my story (partly factual by the way) “i love u and meat, BUT U LOVE GHASPAAT”, the meat lover happens to be a female…and this poor vegetarian chap risks being dumped for being a vegetarian! this reversal in gender from most of the stories/comments above reminded me of the story (its probably jotted somewhere in my organised chaos, if i find it, will certainly post!)

      sounds like you’re all extra-hard-working students, getting gpa 4!! congratulations (to those who didn’t as well – practical/applicable knowledge is important, and grade isn’t everything :) )

      sorry for the lecture :)

    • k 10:55 pm on March 29, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      hey z,
      i didn’t mean peter keating, i meant ‘peter’ the superman when he’s just a boy n how i can’t imagine the thin lil boy turning all muscular n athletic when he swings between those scrapers.

      liked the title of the book, though, ‘fountainhead’, the starting point of any construction work.

      n mp ji, good luck with ur story. i must agree that we almost always presume vegetarians to be female. n we’re not extra-hard-working students who always get gpa 4. last sem, i made a fool out of myself by announcing tht i’d get a new cell for myself if i got a 4, to anyone who’d listen. was so sure of myself. :( sadly, i ended up with Bs in 2 subs that were the simplest of all. i’ve stopped bragging since then. teti bela pani malai bhok lageko thiyo hola, ali dherai din last hune bhok, which ended the moment of my result. tes pachi tanna bho….dherai B le.

  • Happy reading: Hillary Clinton, through a lens wrongly 

    Zadexpress 10:21 am on March 11, 2008 Permalink | Reply

    It’s in the TKP today. Liked it. so putting it here.. Goes along with the “Women’s Month of March too”…Yo gender discussion pani bastabmai par lagne kuro chahin hoina..I’m realizing the graveity of the Issue and also angry at all those who have made it cheap…lau I’ll save the rest for later..read this for now.

    Hillary Clinton, through a lens wrongly

    By Deborah Tannen

    This isn’t about Hillary. Well, OK, it is. But it isn’t only about her. It’s also about every woman who has ever been underestimated, failed to get credit for work she did or been denied opportunities to do work at which she would have excelled.

    With Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton’s presidential primary victories in Texas, Ohio and Rhode Island last week, Democratic voters continue to evaluate her abilities and her chances of winning in a general election — and are confronting the double bind that women in authority, including Clinton, face: If they speak in ways expected of leaders, they’re seen as too aggressive, but if they speak in ways expected of women, they’re seen as less confident and competent than they really are.

    Companies invite me to speak about my research on women and men at work because they want to make sure that they accurately assess everyone’s abilities when deciding whom to promote. Just so, voters need to understand the double bind when deciding who deserves the ultimate promotion to presidential candidate.

    On the morning after the Feb. 21 debate in Texas between Clinton and Sen. Barack Obama, I was speaking to a group of women in managerial positions who were being groomed to advance beyond the levels where women tend to plateau. And I realized that everything I was saying about women in professional environments applies to Clinton.

    At the end of the debate, Clinton said, “I am honored to be here with Barack Obama” and shook hands with her rival for the Democratic nomination. This struck me as the gracious inclusion of her fellow candidate in acknowledging the public trust and regard that had brought them both so far in the race. But her words were widely interpreted as something tantamount to surrender. That interpretation rang in my ears as I spoke of the many ways that women’s expressions of connection are interpreted in the workplace as self-abasement: A manager invites her subordinates’ input and they think she’s asking them to make decisions for her. A woman says “I’m sorry,” meaning “I’m sorry that happened” and is told, “Don’t apologize, it’s not your fault.” She phrases instructions to a subordinate politely (“Would you do me a favor and type this?”) and her own boss, overhearing, thinks that she lacks confidence.

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    • Hayah 2:43 pm on March 14, 2008 Permalink | Reply

      Ah!! I love this article!! Its cynically but so seriously written :) I do wish Hilary would win. “desexualised uniform? ..humm…so maybe jeans fall into that category too huh….so what do you call a guy in kurta contesting in the pakistani polls?

      hehehe

      regards

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