भ्यालेन्टाइन को भूत :)

Love Is All Around
by Wet Wet Wet

I feel it in my fingers
I feel it in my toes
Love is all around me
And so the feeling grows
It’s written on the wind
It’s everywhere I go oh yes it is

“फेरी प्रणय दिवस आयो है? यस पाली पनि कोही ……फेला परेन यार” उसले ढोका उघार्दै भनिन । पढिरहेको किताब छउमा रखेर म जोर सँग हाँस्दै भनेँ
“हामी जस्ता शाकाहारीलाई …..को के काम?”।
अब हाँस्ने पालो हामी दुबै को थियो । 🙂 दिदी बहिनीका कुरा ।

प्रसङ Valentine’s Day को ।


चार बर्ष अघी कसैले मलाई यस बारे सोधेको भए मलाई Feb 14 को औचित्य बारे दुबिधा हुन्थ्यो होला । थाहै नभाको होइन तर कुनै quiz suiz मा आउला भनेर मात्र त्यस बारे जानकारी राख्न्थे । अहिले शायद म आफ्नै जन्म दिन बिर्सिन सकुँला तर भ्यालेन्टाइन Day त नो chance!Globalization को उपज हुनसक्छ को वा अरु कुनै बाहना Valentine को भूत सवार हुनु यहाँको नयाँ फेशन भएको छ । “वाह फेब आयो यार” भन्दै दङ पर्ने म पनि कुनै अपबाद चाँही होइन । यसै रोमन्टिक हरुलाई एउटा बाहानाको मात्र खोजी हुन्छ क्या, खोइ कुरा बुझेको ? 🙂

रोमन्यान्स ? तपाईंलाई यो के हो जस्तो लाग्छ त ?
हाम्रा अङ्रेजी पढाउने सरलाई कुखुराको भालेले एकाबिहानै बासेको रोम्यान्टिक लग्थ्यो रे! वहाँ भन्नु हुन्थ्यो ” त्यो भालेले गला फुलाएको द्र्शयमा रोम्यान्स छ”।

मलाई मन्द बतासको स्पर्श रोमान्टिक लाग्छ( सबैलाई पक्कै लाग्छ होला त्यो त!) ,साँझपख एकान्तमा एक्लो वा भाग्य भए “दुक्लो” 🙂 भएर हिँडदा स्वर्गिय आनन्दको अनुभव हुन्छ । यो साँझको बेला नै नशा जस्तो है ? केही समय अगाडि जमलतिर साँझपख हिडिरहेको थिए, दिमागमा Michael Buble को Home भन्ने गीत आयो, कस्तो हल्का “डान्स होजाए” जस्तो लागेको क्या! ढुंगानालाई सम्झी रहेको थिएँ । ” तँलाई साँची बाटोको बिचमा नाच्न मन लाग्छ हो ? ” उसलाई पत्यार लाग्दैन । मलाई चाँही जुनेली रातमा कसैको दिमागमा “Home”जस्तो romantic song आउँदा पनि एसो बल डान्सका मुभ गर्न नमन्लाग्ने कुरा अपत्यारिलो लाग्छ! 🙂

म त्यो एउटा हात माथि एउटा तलको पोज सम्झिन्छु र एक्ल्यै हल्लिन्छु। कूल लाग्छ! त्यो हावा नाच नै यति रमाइलो लाग्छ कि म त्यसको कुनै replacement नै चाहन्न । I am too engrossed in it to think beyond. यो तस्वीर जस्तो one of the most beautiful pics ever!

By MPJi
( Thanks for the permission MPji 🙂 ) जे छ त्यहीमा अनन्त सौन्दर्य छ । त्यसको पूर्ण स्वरूप जान्ने प्रयास नै, आफुसँग भएको कुराको अपमान गर्नु सरह लागेर आउँछ । अनि शायद कति कुराको प्राप्तीमा भन्दा चाहना मै आनन्द छ ।

अलि दार्शनिक भयो है ? तर बाल मत्लब, दर्शनको बुझाई सधैं व्यतिगत नै हुन्छ, जसरी बुझेपनि हुन्छ । अनि आफ्नो बुझाई सच्याउने अधिकार अरु कसैलाई हुँदैन । You’ve got plenty of freedom.

And I feel just like I’m living someone else’s life
It’s like I just stepped outside

Home-Michael Buble

अब वास्तविकताको धरतलमा उभिएर कुरा गरौँ । आफ्नो रोमान्टिक साइड व्यक्त गर्न सक्नु या नसक्नु पनि नितन्त व्य्क्तिगत कुरा हो नि, होइन त ? कोही भन्न सक्छन, कोइ गर्न मात्र । ( If you know what I mean!lol 🙂 ) कोइ लेखन माहिर त कोही सिर्फ हेर्न । कोही चाँही केवल कल्पनामै मात्र हराउन सक्ने क्षमाता राख्छन । शायद त्यो आआफ्नै स्टाईल होला!

म आफुलाई लेखने बर्गमा रख्छु ।
परे जेपनि लेखुँला तर पर्सनल मामलामा बोली फुटाउन हम्मे पर्छ ,एकदम नजिकको मान्छे सँग बाहेक । गफको बिषय आफु नभएमा चाँही जोसँग जे बारे नि कुरा गर्न सक्छु! 🙂 तर प्रयोग नहुने दक्षताका बारेमा के गफ गर्नु ? हा हा हा । बरु तपाईं चाँही लेख्नने, भन्ने र गर्न पनि सक्ने महा पुरुष वा महिला पो पर्नु भयो कि ? 😉

Red red rose... winey rose?

जो जस्तो भएपनि आफ्ना blessings count गर्ने मौका हो, किन खुशी नहुने ?
तर हाम्रा पुज्य माता पिता तथा अन्य बुज्रुका तिक्ष्ण नजरका कारण साथीभाइहरुले Valentine’s Day मनाउने style परिवर्तन गर्नु परेको देखेर चाँही दिक्क लाग्छ । मन दुखेर आँउछ्! हा हा हा । फेब १४ मै कुनै केटा वा केटी सँग देख परे “चोरि पकडी जाएगी भन्ने डर ले, त्यसको celebration कि त एक दिन अघी वा एक दिन पछि सार्ने गरिन्छ! तर यार प्रेमी हरु ” प्यार कि य तो डर ना क्या, डर ते हो तो प्यार करना क्या”। दुनियाँलाई थाहा भैसकेकाले आफ्नो पुस्ताको गोपनियता भङ गरेको आरोप नलग्ला! बरु आफ्नो पालो आएपछी पो के गर्ने, अब त नयाँ उपाय सोच्नै पर्‍यो नि! LOL ( म यो ठुलै खतरा मोल्दै लेखिरहेको छु किनभने अब कडा प्रस्नोतर सेसनको सहभागी हुनुपर्ने छ! ग ड हेल्प मी ! बचाओ! हा हा हा 🙂 )

तर एक प्रकार ले त ठिकै हो, प्रेमीहरुले अमर प्रेमका पूजारी Saint Valentine लाई फेब १४ मै सम्झिन नपाउनु! तर त्यो दिन कुन प्रेम जोडी ले पो वहाँलाई सम्झन्छ होला र? उनिहरु त आफ्नै तालमा मस्त हुन्छन ।
कस्तो बिडम्बना! 😦

वहाँलाई सम्झिने पनि हाम्राइ काम त होला नि! एक त आफ्नो सार्वजनिक जीवन जिउने अधिकार हनन गर्छन्, त्यस माथि थप दायित्व ! बहिनी भन्छे ” यि जोडी हरु पनि यसै चिनेने है ? डोकुमेन्टरी हेर्दा पनि एक अर्का तिर ढल्की हल्नु पर्ने!” मेरो अनुभव चाँही कफि खाँदा को छ । एक्लै गयो, जोडीको ताल देख्दै एक त लाज लागेर भाग्न मनलाग्छ, त्यसमाथि उनिहरुको रास लीला! चारइ तिर हेर्न नि नपाईने, क्लास मा जस्तो भित्तामै आँखा गाडेर बस्नु पर्ने! घरि घरि त “सार्वजनिक जीवन यापन गर्ने” अधिकार हननको मुद्दा हलिदिउँकी जस्तो लाग्छ! अलि सेल्फ्-कन्ट्रोल एक्सर्साइज गर्नु पर्‍यो नि यार ! नेपाललाई नेपाल जस्तो नै रहन दिए बेस यो Public display of emotion को मामलामा चाँही ।

बाल हो आफ्नो जिना हरम गर्ने बर्गलाई घोच पेच गर्ने त अधिकार नै होला नि!
गत वष नि केही खास थिएन न, यो साल चाँही केही यादगार गरौँ भन्या, केही नहोला जस्तो छ । 😦

धेरै राम्री, नक्कली हरुसँग दोस्ती गरेकाले त्यसकै प्रतिफल हो यो । एउटा धोकेबाज भयो त के अरु पाँच खुट्टा म टाउको छीनाउन तयार भएर आउँछन अनि म जस्ता साथी सँग घुम्ने फुर्सद कहाँ! मोज गर महरानी! यो “पि” भन्ने लेटर नै तेरै लागि बनेको जस्तो छ । मेरा क्या होगा कालीया!! हा हा हा 😉

तर यो हामी दुबैको मनपर्ने फुल चाँही हाम्रो लागि है!

white rose

I liked this Dark one too!

dark wineberry rose

The lady in red is dancing with me
Cheek to cheek
There’s nobody here
It’s just you and me
It’s where I wanna be
But I hardly know this beauty by my side
I’ll never forget the way you look tonight

THE LADY IN RED (Chris Deburgh)

Happy Valentine Fever Everyone!!

Live, Laugh, Love!!

Further Reads to Get high On LoooooooVe:

1. To the City of Love and Lights… by Juggy 🙂

2. A Valentine Victim? Read this “Oh St Valentine! Would you PLEASE leave me alone?”by MPji

and the aftermath Here!

3.love is all around…. by Archana Shrestha

4. A real nice Fact cum Fiction Combination by Say

And my question to the remaining bloggers is :खोइ त रोमान्टिक भाको ? 😉

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30 comments

  1. आहा बडा राम्रो लेख्नु भएछ zade ले त , माया पिरतिमा परेपछि साथी हरु होस् गुमाउने
    देख्नेलाई लाज भएर के गर्ने अब social हुन लाई देखेर पनि नदेखेको जस्तो गर्दिने नि ।
    http://www.archana.com.np/blog/

  2. त्यो त हामीलाई नाइन्साफि भैहाल्यो नि!
    नक्कल पारेनी हेर्ने बाँकी केही ठाँउ त छाड्नु पर्‍यो नि! नदेखेको जस्तो त मान्छे सँग कुरा गर्न मननलागेको बेला मात्र गर्न आउँछ, आँफै मात्र हुँदा पनि स्वाङ पर्नु पर्ने कस्तो जिन्दगी हो यो! हा हा हा यसो समस्या बुझ्ने प्रयास गरौँ न हो१ 😉 सब डेटिग स्पोट बनाएरै हैरान्, कफि खाँदा त कप मै मात्र हेरुला! गोदबारी मा त सिनरी हेर्न पाउनु पर्‍यो नि! 🙂

  3. शनिवारको बिहानै भ्यालेन्टाइनको भूतले तर्साउने भो भन्ठानेको तर खूब हँसायो 🙂 सुरुको दिदी-बहिनीका कुराले नै set me rolling with laughter…त्यसपछि त रोकिने कुरै भएन झन!
    अनि म त त्यो तस्बीरको thumbnail or resize or crop राख्न खोज्नुभो भनेर पो हुन्छ भनेको त। कस्तो कन्जुस्याई, एउटा लिङ्क ले टारिदिने? अनि अझ साइडमा Thanks for the permission MPji रे, अब त्यति लिङ्क गर्नलाई पनि कसैको permission चाहिन्छ र?
    happy valentine!! हावा नृत्यमै सिमित रहेपनि!!

  4. oh ho Valentine Bhoot entry ma prabesh paune tetro chahana! lol 😉 aba rakhchu hai tasbir.

    “happy valentine!! हावा नृत्यमै सिमित रहेपनि!!”

    hmm aba हावा नृत्य ko mahtwo jhalkaune pic line le ni try garaun na ta testa kura? ani patta lagcha सिमित hunu ko masti!! 🙂

  5. हसाँएको थाहा पाउँदा मन नै प्रसान्न भयो! अब
    डेट नभएर रुनु भएन क्यारे, होइन त ?तेसैले Vals को रोमन्चक पक्ष र भोगाइ को गन्थन लेखेको ।
    कमेन्ट का लागि धन्यवाद है सबैलाई । अनि Vahsekजी तपाईं प्रेम दिवस् को कट्टर बिरोधि पर्नु भयो कि कसो ?

    N btw everyone tried to do something new.and found this songspot thing there, does the song play when you click on it? I don’t know what’s wrong with my computer.., maybe the speakers ho ki maybe I have not done the thing correctly. Please give me a feedback on if the Song there “Love in the Wind” gets played or not hai? yeso fiddling with this blog kya 🙂 …n don’t forget to read Say’s story . I have provided the link in the article. Its Babbal! sth more to get high on the Valentine Fever. 😉

  6. Yoh barsa pani kunai boka fela parena yar bhanera taile basantapur ko tyo mandir ma bhaneko sunda ta lagyo ki phuchi le talai boka bhaneko k ho bhanera nasikako bhaye ta thulo illusion ma hunthes but after going through this entry definately u have cleared that its very difficult for we nepalese to celebrate this love festival openly.

    K garnu ‘ pyar keya to darna kya bhanne’ mantra pani exercise garna garo kaam richa.ani jhan dance class jaja thale pachi ta every day romantic geet haru ma nachda nachdi afno ta romantic feeling ko defination kukhura baseko ra sarra hawa chaleko bhanda dheri farak bha cha. love song ma dance garera tyo seweaty look ma afno valentine ko najik gayera katai coffee khanu ko majja nai arkai huncha. Ani jati tauko nai katne fan haru bhaye pani tyo auta manche jasto ta koi nahudo raicha so all p’s bye bye because real “P” in her life has finally entered and made her forget every thing.Ani jati ramri keri haru ko sathi bhaye pani intellectual friend haru ko astitva bhaneko farak huncha ni, chat ma jati jhanta kura gare pani akhir baudik sathi lai ta faida ko lagi bhaye pani periphery ma rakhi halchan ni.but i dnt think u fren is that beautiful as some one has regarded her to be balanced salad with all ingredients included and necessarily not beautiful.

    Valentine day ta bhabya manau jasto lagyo yar malai ta tero yoh entry padera, after all we are no more living in the world where we are not allowed to stay with the person we like.Ani how interesting is the way ur sis identify love jodi haru, but its true as they cant stay with out feeling each other no matter they r in resturent, hall, public place or class room but its natural and we musr respect their feeling after all we cant deny the fact that no love exists with out sexual feellings and spiritual love just sounds nice to read and listen. I think u can remember someones view on long distance relationship.

    Khai may be love happens when u regularly see, meet,talk and yes of course miss your partner and cant wait to see him.yoh ta beha nai nabhai sriman, srimati, buda,budi ani pati dev vanne jamana cha ra tesma love kata cha bhanera khojnu ta garo pani chaina. Meeting bhai rako bela ma sano cheat ma I LOVE U bahnera pass garchan, i will wait for u for 5 years bhanchan,u love me too bhanera sodchan,romantic sms pathauchan but one girl is so strong that she remains completely uneffected with that proposal,i think there is some one else for her and is waiting for him however i suspect that she has already recognized her real hero.

    kahi paris ma honeymoon ko lagi ticket kinedine sathi paunu pani bhagya ko kura raicha. 🙂

  7. khoob lekhis yar! ho I think we should grab every single opportunity to celebrate life ! Remember what I told you ni Pashupati 😉 I want to repeat ha ha ha “Jindagi ek bar ho, aja yahan bholi kewal kharani so you Should LIVE, Love pani dhurandhar style mai garnuparcha!”

    n begining with Phuchi ko kura to say the fact I am still not able to understand this Boka-khasi difference, and you know how dhilo buddhi I have got in such matters ..I think I asked some guy in our class about it! n he had laughed so badly..but with the help of our friend hope will grow up someday ! ahile there is no need, hoina ta?

    N for the Balanced Salad that you are! ( never heard such an original dialogue yar)..I think I am the happiest character in this Discovery Of Love Here, yah would gladly wear your marble or siffon or whatever that you plan to give me!kamar dhekhauna ha ha ha maybe should start trimming down some more! 🙂 Whatever the reason for keeping “Baudik Sathi” in your periphery, I like it! LOL that way I still get to stay bad like this never learning to cook, only being fed .Well we all have a reason, a selfish reason ( the whole unconditionality of relationship..is crap I have realized) bare fact of life ho ni ,hoina ta? Am waiting for those “please come for dinner, Again” calls!!ha ha ha and he’s gonna like my dining habits “eat without leaving a grain of rice on the plate” ! Dreams , hoi it surprise me. The pace in which they Get Fulfilled. Scary Speed yar, but when the person is consistent then Life Absolutely Rocks!!

    ani coffee ta ho, m so glad that you finally understand its Magic!! The same place which becomes special, the walks, the evenings..yesai baudik sathiko love guruma vako kina thak lauthen ra!!ha ha ha bidambana sab lai help garne surma afno nai damadol vayeko chalai paiyena!!

    N whtever is the real hero and the fake! The girl’s gonna have it her way, her life, her style! 🙂 but your suggestion is noted for life criterias will be cook tasty, no drinks please! pheri taile bhanya jasto everyday I will have to listen to ” hernos srimatiji, ma 2037 sal ma janmeko! duniya dekhiyo.! ” ah ha ha ha tyo film ta ma jindagi bhar birsinna!! but always a pleasure for her to be able to promise things that sound next to impossible at the moment for her friend. but you never got anything without dreaming, hoina ta? I guess she needs to plan her earnings carefully now in order to do that Just In Time because this is Too Fast 🙂 but again like he’d said ” the faster the better”. ha ha ha

    Yo Vals ta Babbal Nai Gar hai! malai ni idea de ramna ha ha ha ghar ma basera nachnu bhanek!

  8. तिम्रो आशिष को लागि धन्यवाद!
    लव गर्नेसँग संगत गर्दा अब लव पनि गर्न आउला

    हा हा हा संगत ? यहाँ guilty party को एकतिरको मान्छे मात्र चिन्नु पर्ने रहेछ्! दुबै जना चिनेर चाँही जिना हराम भाको हो क्य! आहा यो एक तिर दुई शिकार पो भो त! हलुका भो ! I feel like the master of Ghochpech Wow! अनि चाहे त यसपाली नि खतरा हुनसक्छ नि! नजाने गाउँको बाटो के सोध्नु भनेर bold नभाको LOL सब कुराको समय हुँदो रहेछ । Reminds me of a nice love song which goes ” When It comes to love I need a slow hand” 😉 …romantic number sunera vasirako, so vals no vals malai sadhai same, just a bahana to Smile broader and laugh louder!

  9. Ok..The valentine’s month is here again!! and it took ur blog by storm!!..:P
    And I am 20th to comment..:(
    It had been obsession to comment first on ur blog..:P
    U just have to state love in your blog and it takes blog by storm..ehehehe
    Anyways, the overrated day is here to stay!!
    And to tell u the difference in khasi and boka:
    Khasi is vascetomised version of Boka!!
    Now don’t ask me again what vascectomy is!!..:P
    have a nice time out there!!..:)

  10. Thanks Juggy. I think that was what exactly I needed to know. but then a friend called me and gave me the exact meaning of the entire Boka word usage, and I surely Was Shocked to know it! God, its got such Yucky meaning therefore I am damn mad at everyone I know for not telling me that. Guys you could have at least mailed me! 😦 Therefore I first got angry at my sis for saying the dialogue without understanding the meaning, then at myself for writing it without Getting The Entire Thing! Damn! but never meant it otherwise..tyo ta malai nai thaha thiyena…so I am erasing it..shock nai paryo ni malai ta!

  11. Nice expression of feelings towards V Day. Tara sarai bore nai hunchha yar tyo din chai jata heryo jodi matrai. Asti ko pali tens bhayera eklai film herna gayeko ta half time pani nabhai bhagera niskanu paryo. What a nice & safe place for couple but now a days its being a very tens and jelous place for others single. Anyway, happy valentine day in advance.

  12. Valentine ko bhut gajab lagyo … ji,
    Joda hune nahune both le chitta bujhaune bato ko kura ho….tara khoi hami ta pachhi ko pachhi..ha ha hah haa…Mero number kaab aayega!!!
    Any Joda Hune nahune sabailai
    HAPPY VALENTINE

  13. Lau khasi ra boka ko difference maa comment lekheko thien feri haraechha!

    Juggy you are not cent percent correct hai. Scientifically speaking.

    Rather than vasectomised, khasis are castrated. Even after vasectomy male animals have lust. YOu can take example of humans!

    Vas deferens, the sperm duct, is surgically cut in vasectomy.

    In castration, testicles are broken or removed in males. As in the case of making khasi from boka.
    —–
    One more thing Zade, there is one more word that my annoy you.

    “THHIS”

    You know its meaning? But most of the guys use it . you would have heard it.

    If not find in one of my blogs.

    There is the url. above … below my name in this very comment of mine.

  14. Well, thankx for the sharing ur knowledge here. though I have a few questions here, why the need to do that?? ( but you needn’t answer). I don’t think the goats have a population explosion problem? ..whatever the case I am not interested in knowing that..will write an entry on this I guess ..have been thinkin of it for a long time( not abt goats)but the sex education in our country …ah..so not in mood at the moment 😦 but thanx again. better know of sth and than remain ignorant I guess….

  15. I knew that but wanted to make it simple!!and yeah I didn’t remember the word castrate!!..:S
    well I have seen the procedure, how cruel human are..:S
    I mean the bokas scream in pain and ppl stand and watch the procedure!!.:S

  16. i’m ta rajniti ko bhoot.
    what i thought was always abt rajniti. hard politics kya.
    no, don’t take me wrong–i wasn’t involved in any political parties. but have participated in major political movts and yes on social movts. i thought i’m made for that.

    ani tesaima maile jooni bitaechu. i’m quite old now (all my friends, even from college, except one have challa-challis!!). febs came and went. its not that i was not attracted to girls, but never took seriously… fursat kaha thiyo ra? or chha ra? dog-busy kya!

    after a week past the V-D somehow i got to read your post on LOVE, etc…

    and there was this song, LADY in RED,

    and it reminded me of my teenaged days…

    i didn’t understand english songs then (neither do i now, btw, when was the last time i listened to english song? or for that matter any songs? well it was some time ago, Lookin for father in you by mary j bilge i guess. liked the song though). but somehow listened to musical hour (?). and bought a few english cassettes…. in one of them was this song Lady in Red…

    but there was no lady in red in my life…. red-faced? no. i’m not.

    thanks for reminding me of my good-old days…

    CHEERS
    kaale

  17. v day ko bara ma ramro chha.
    tara hamro teen age ko lagi ta bada dashain ho. badadashai ko importance ta tapai le samjhanu hunchha hola.
    next year plz bada dashi jhi utshav gharnu hola.

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